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Well, my younger sister wanted me to ask this question. She is 15, almost 16 and wants to know why, if she's a teenager, is she never horny? she's never had a boyfriend. and honestly, as her older sister, i'm kind of worried. i mean i was horny when i was her age, so why isn't she? HELP! i would love to get advice on this so i could help my little sis out. Thanksss
I'm a healthy woman and was never ever horny in my life UNLESS I was in love. And then I was WILDLY sexual. That's the way it's supposed to be for women. We are not supposed to be ravaged by raging sexual feelings for any and all. When she falls in love, she'll have the right sexual feelings and she will enjoy them very much indeed.
Is it to the point where she isn't attracted to males at all? Or even not attracted to females? Cause she might be Asexual (not sure if that's how you spell it) but my older sister is just gone 18 an has never had a partner and finds the thought of two people being physically close disgusting. She doesn't like men or women and has no desire at all to have anyone to share her life with. She would rather just have her dog as a companion (in a none beastiality way)
You should be happy she's not going out ''whoring'' around every night ^^
And I am like this, almost no sexual thoughts at all until I fall in love with a guy and then I have a ''normal'' sex life. You know, some people need to have feelings for their sexual mate unless they don't get turned on and I think it,s better off this way.
I think of it this way; your sister is going one of these person that it actually means something ( a demonstration of affection, of love) when they MAKE LOVE to their partner, and the lucky person will feel this love and that special bound. It will make them feel special and appreciated.
Personally when I make love to my boyfriend I get all sorts of emotions and it makes the sex torrid and oh so satisfying, it makes the two of you connect in a deeper level, it's intense every time and the passion just keep growing instead of fading.
Let her have the sexuality SHE wants.
No need to behave like in a porn flick ;)
Well , Let me say this it is normal not to feel Horny , your better off being that way , when you do finally meet someone you love there will be emotional and spiritual love to enhance the physical love , when the three come together like that ,,, you will be happy and the two of you should remain faithful for the rest of your lives , try and find someone like yourself to make sure of it
Damn give your sister some space. She's probably freaking out and thinks you're creepy for talking about being horny with her. Just give her some space and respect her privacy. If she's not horny you can't do much to change that. Maybe she's focused on school and grades, which would be the sensible thing to do anyway. Or maybe she just doesn't want to share every intimate detail of her horny fantasies with her big sister, and really I don't blame her for that
She could be asexual or just have a low libido. You shouldn't be scared of this. Why would you be? If she doesn't want to be asexual or her low sex drive is bothering then I think there are ways that she can boost her sex drive. I would wait until she is 18 to get anything checked or done.
no one to make her get horny. at 13 i had a boyfriend who kisses n play with my breast, each time i think n imargin him making love to me. at 21 he disvirgin me n we kept making love all d time.
When I was 15 I wasn't really that Horney but the guys were grabbing our butts all the time.
Maybe she's a late bloomer?
I had no sex drive to speak of, and was completely disgusted by sex until age 17 or 18. Then it was like a switch being flipped, and I was constantly randy. Some women don't develop a sex drive in their teens, or not until their late teens, or sometimes not until they're in a relationship. Maybe she's asexual, but it's more likely that she just isn't ready for sex yet.
Maybe .... Well, I don't know... Why did I even start a comment? Oh, I think, first off, it may be you your talking about. And that's okay. Are there antidepressants involved? I've had a couple of my female friends discuss not being able to have an orgasm because of their medications.
I am 31 and I have heard all my life that women reach their sexual peaks in their 30's. Yeah, right! I don't have a sex drive at all, really, and this aggravates my partner to death! Your sister (or you) is normal. Not all women/girls have the same level of hormones flowing through their bodies and that is what determines the sex drive. Maybe she just isn't ready and that's o.k. Don't push her into something that she is not ready to do because she will only hate you for it later.
i used to have issues with the same thing.... sexuality is very individual tho so maybe she isnt turned on by conventional stuff. thats okay! its also possible that she had mental blocks too. since sex is primarily in the mind if you always think your not getting horny then you probably wont. just relax and enjoy the experience- getting turned on will happen naturally.
Yeah, it's fine. Everyone's different after all. I agree with it being a bit of a benefit too. Also, it means she'll be able to concentrate on things when she wants to instead of getting constantly distracted. So don't worry, there's nothing wrong lol :P
i dont think its much of a problem probaby a benefit actually, once she has a boyfriend she will most likely get horny at one point when there fooling around and such but it means that she dosnt have to go out and sleep with random men to forfill a stupid emotion because emotions such as these make us do stupid things, my GF is exactly the same i have to turn her on shes never just randomly turned on so tell her to not worry about it.