Why am i scared of this?

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I really want a family when I grow up. I want a loving husband that will be with me forever and kids that are great. my parents are the perfect example none of my siblings drink or party, and my parents love each other very much. But I'm scared this will never happen for me! I'm in my last year of high school and never even kissed anyone let alone have been in a relationship. I'm scared that because I can't even get a guy in school when it's easy I wont get one when it becomes a lot harder. Im so scared my life is not going to work out how i hope and I won't be happy with it even though I want to be. is this normal? what are your thoughts about this?

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    12 years ago

    I grew up on Walt Disney fairy tales and I convinced myself I would one day find a man who adored me and treated me like a princess. Each time I am with someone new and he's a complete prick (trust me, I tend to hunt the pricks down) my beautiful dream grows a little dimmer.
    I am getting to the point where I think my prince charming may not exist BUT I am happy. I have a roof over my head, I love my job, I have a brilliant family and my friends, although all a bit mad, are just fantastic.
    Personally, I think you're too young to worry about a man, you WILL find someone one day, he may not be perfect but nobody ever is. I suppose it's a little harder for you growing up with the perfect parents so you have these expectations, but you're living your life and it may be different but you will find a way to make yourself happy.

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago

    You'll be fine, don't stress :-)

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  • blondie1234
    12 years ago

    innocence is better than being judged, intentionally or not, for the mistakes you make when you are young. its way harder to have an explanation for what went wrong.. then to not have a thing to explain.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Be selective and don't just go out with any fool. Your future husband will appreciate you so much more!

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  • DollyMae
    12 years ago

    I was 22-years-old when I kissed my first and ONLY man. I married him a few years later! The WORST mistake you can make is thinking you need someone RIGHT NOW, or that you need to take what you can get. Be patient! PATIENT! You are only about 18-years-old, you will find someone who will sweep you off your feet. I did.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    On a different note to 'you'll be fine'.

    Life is not a fairy tale that always has a happy ending.
    You may not get your perfect husband or kids or home, but you'll still be ok.
    Life is full of ups and downs, some of these being extreme. This is the real life, and most like it exactly that way.

    If you truly got the perfect everything I'd think it would be boring personally. I'd probably throw a brick through the window just even things out back to > Normal.

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  • -WhySoSerious-
    12 years ago

    you'll be fine..

    One advice I can give you since you're going to be in college next year.... don't be the girl who seems like she missed out in high school..

    in college you will learn more about people than ever before..

    my friend who's a girl, was just a turn off when she did all this crazy shit in college in a single year just because she's never done anything in high school

    nah mean?

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