Why are guys so low

No. There is no specific ideal that ALL men find attractive. Most guys sexual tastes are a lot more open than they are willing to let on (especially around their friends). Indeed, most men I know personally prefer brunettes to blondes. Oh, and the words "California" and "normal" should never appear in the same sentence unless they are separated by "is not".

go for the good lookin, smart, quiet guy, who looks like he doesnt give a shit about nothing, he'll be so happy someones actually interested in him he wont do anything to make you unhappy. Side effects this type of guy will have include include: insanity, unexplainable rage and an infinite abyss where real emotions should be

Ok, I'm one of those blondes that you seem to hate... I'm 5'8"size 2, C cup. But I also have an IQ of 168, and am studying for my MA. But no guy can see past how I look. I hate that, I'm intelligent and funny and have loads of friends and am a pretty brilliant person (and SOOO modest, haha). But guys see me, assume I'm easy (which I'm not), and I spend my whole time in clubs etc being annoyed by stupid men who want nothing more then to have sex with me, and don't even care what my name is. I don't even dress up any more to try and avoid it, cuz it ruins your night. My friend has a horrible way of describing it- some guys will go for anything that looks easy if they're hard up enough: any port in a storm. It sounds to me like you need to find better men, not worry about blondes. Cuz it's not all fun and games for us either. Any guy who does stuff like that is a dick and only looking for a quick shag. If that's what you want fine, get real drunk and someone will take you home... But if you need a real man who will be able to talk to you about books and films and music, and who will care about you and your opinions, you need to avoid looking for guys in bars...

try coming to the uk. american boys have no brains.

hey, i'm a guy and i don't like bit tits or blonde hair. i don't like the supermodel look, or the skinny girls. i'm not worried about how they look or how well they give a blowjob. i'm not even interested in any sexual relationships. don't generalise. not all guys are like that. the guys that you meet who are like that are looking for a fuck, and nothing more.

just get a shy bf. they'll neva leave ya :)

Sweetheart missed the boat. It's all about the skinny "trendy" brunettes these days. Or the raven haired ones. Blonde with curves was kicked to the curb about six years ago. So sorry sweets, those DDs aren't going to help you and don't blame the blondes.

I don't think all guys are low, because I'm not blond and I have a cup breasts, but I have the best bf in the world.

That's not true about every guy. Maybe every guy you met. Personally,almost all the girls I've been with have been brunettes. It might be a good idea to think about the guys you met before. Ask yourself what they were like. What personality traits did they have that were similar to each other(other than going after blondes). If you find that you've been going for the same type of guy, you may want to go for a different type.

And believe me. We are NOT all like that. We guys can be as unique as snowflakes, same as you ladies.

i like brunettes a lot more than blondes

bleach your hair and get the dick.

guys are shallow and perverted jerks.

This topic is a failure. Stop blaming over 2 billion humans for your shortcomings. You're ignorant and make illogical assumptions.

Maybe you should work on improving your IQ before you date...as dating can accidentally lead to breeding, and we don't need anymore retards running around.

Go after the nice guys. They are better to women and they are better in bed then most of the guys looking for a perfect person. Honestly.

yeah I'm not a fan of big jangly boobs which get all saggy. I do have a preference for brunette haired girls, and I don't like girls who are fat, just girls don't like fat men. The whole wobbly belly thing ain't attractive.

Anyway, point is.

What the hell happened to romance? guys these days shirk a proper relationship, something they can truly enjoy. I want girlfriend who I can have a laugh with, someone who I'm really comfortable being around and who brings out the best in me. Personality goes such a long way. Looks are unfortunately always the way in, but after I forgive myself for being naturally shallow, i want to focus on the personality side.

Sex is tremendously unimportant to me unless I'm already in a relationship.

not all guys are like that. i personally have no preference in hair color and i don't like DD's or big boobs in general.

Stereotyping guys is just as bad as stereotyping girls. You're saying all guys are the same because you've had bad experiences. That would be like me saying that all girls are cheaters, because I've had that happen. But I don't believe that they are. You need to find someone mature, and stop trying to find a so called "good" guy at a club or bar. No mature guy is looking for the love of his life, or a relationship of any kind at a club or bar. They're just looking for one thing there.

Maybe the guys you associate with are so low because you share a common altitude.

I'm a size ddd and 5'9" and blonde and I don't get drunk. I think its because blonde and fair skin is attractive to most guys. Not because they are drunk or easy. I have to be the most prude of all prudes until I want it. You're just being stereotypical of blondes. Its just like saying all blondes are dumb or ditzy. Which makes you dumb in the end.

what guy likes size 0??? i dunno abwt california but most guys seem to like something to hold at least

Noooo, if I was male I wouldn't be attracted to girls like that. I wouldn't mind what colour their hair was, or what size their breasts were. I'd like them to be more than size 0 (hur) because that's not normal, and with huge boobs it would just look... No. I just wouldn't want them to be stupid and alcoholic! Jeeeeeez.
Then again, If I was male I'd be very gay. [:

What? That's not true! Some guys like curvy, chubby, or even obese women. Some guys like small breasts, some guys dont care at all about boobies. Everyone is different.

"i mean im 5'5 size 5 DD and brunette"

THAT'S MY TYPE. I would never look away, you know it

girls mature faster than guys. We just hope they will somehow grow up. although not all guys are like this. there is this guy in my high school and he's a freshman like me and he is the most mature guy i know.
he is more mature than even the seniors

blonde girls are the most naive though

Answer; get drunk and u too will hav the joys of unlimited sexual intercourse.

lol, us guys are the more superficial ones? that's a good laugh hahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaaa.

I used to be brunette haired 2,C cup but now then went blonde 3,d now I'm blonde on end and brunette on top and 5 dd every guy always stares and even get my ex's stare and I got this guy so upset when I changed got a new man and settled down to have a family because he treat me like a princess to try getting something but I used and abused

Oh please a woman I fell in love with at first sight has put on weight but I still think she's the most beautiful girl in the world and gets more beautiful everytime I see her. I honestly could care less what she looks like she's such an amazing woman and still so beautiful.

"Every guy wants a blonde bitxh with DD and size 0."
NOT true at all ;) Believe me :)

Well, first off. OHEY I'M A GUY. I'm not really a fan of most girls with big tits. Because most of them are pretty much whores. And I won't brag shit about intelligence and whatnot. I really don't care. Maybe I care about looks sure but I love a girl with a great personality. I don't care what you're packing DD's C'S whatever the hell you got. If you're a bitch I won't bother. And still, you can't really not look a girl's boobs. I mean, it's there. Chilling. And also, it's annoying how it's EVERY GUYS not MOST GUYS. Not all guys are like that. Most girls are ridiculously low. Where it's six pack this, plays sport that. Hot this, cute that. Seriously. My dream girl is someone who doesn't care about looks, doesn't cheat, who isn't a slut, who will be there for you. It's a less than 0 chance of finding someone like that. But guess what? I did find someone like that. And I'm never letting her go.

Oh btw all boobs are gud boobs imo :P

The perfect girl; 5'8"+, red/ jet black hair, punk/emo look, who plays WoW, and listens to metal/alt.... Whos with me??? :D

i got one thing to say: may the best ass win.
dont care about hair color and stuff like that but i adore redhead:O

-sigh- Youd judge every male by the males you have only seen or involve yourself with. I see so many slutty girls does that mean every girl including you are slutty bitches?

People stereotype that those type of girls are easier. And guys pretty much want an easy lay, they assume that is what these girls are. So yea it is normal, because guys have such simple minds.

Stop fucking complaining woman.

guys want sex and if u arent putting out theyre gonna go to that drunk blonde at least most guys are no one girl or guy has considered me like that

as a guy(who thinks nearly everyone is that shallow including girls) i have to say yeah thats the norm,

and even then 25% of how i judge people come form things they cant control, rather then how they dress ,how well they lie when asked "how are u", If they lie, and whats the first topic they being up etc.

Thats insulting just because some of us are jackasses doesnt mean we all are... Sure majority but thats like saying all women are whiny bitches. Not all are, some are, its a common stereotype but they still arent

well that depends im a young brunette not huge boobs but nice round ass and if im talking to a guy best believe he aint look at no dumb blond. so the real question here is do u have a "but her face?"

Some guys are just shallow @$$holes when it comes to what they think is hot. I'm from Jersey (I'm not a guido, Italian, or from the shore) so I can't speak for cali, but I'm more into brunettes anyway. As far as breast size goes, I could really care less. As long as the girl exercises regularly and has an interesting personality, I'm set.

Try going to places where the guys aren't all meathead douchebags. They have, expectations of blond girls and that makes them more attracted to them. But not all guys are like that, in fact most of them aren't.
But then I've never been to Cali, maybe a change of scenery is in order.

you are so right men only care about hair eye color they always make bullshit stereotypes like blonde jokes or stereotype brunette as dull i'm dark hiared by the way and dark eyes i wish i had purple eyes i think red hair is beautiful my grandma had gorgous red hair and blue eyes my mom has pretty dirty blonde hiar and blue green eyes stupidy comes in all colors there are some smart and pretty blondes out there just like their are smart and pretty brunettes and redheads

I also have red hair and believe me, none of the guys ever liked me either. i can only hope

Some ghys want an easy girl to get laid. Me,personally like a girl with a personality, brains & a good music taste

Well, I myself care more about a meaningful relationship... but I'm bi, so I guess I've got that girlish part of me ._.
Some guys are really sweet though, you'll meet one eventually.

I actually hate the blonde haired size 0s. I associate them with the slutty preppy bitches that made my life hell in high school. Size 7-9, normal size breast, brown hair, now thats a girl for me.

You ask why guys are so low, yet all the examples people have posted involve a girl acting low. Hmm coincidence.

And why do girls think that all guys are the same? It really irritates me because I make a conscious effort to avoid that whole "all guys are horny" stereotype, and girls still complain.

yay! someone who gets it! i know! im a brunette, im flat as a tack, but boys like me until a orange fake tanned blonde walks by in a mini and a top that barely covers anything

well maybe cause your only looking at the hot guys that are cool that look for them types of people maybe you should try looking for someone that aint cool and hot and if u think em no way then u deserve for guys to blow u off for a drunk blonde

prolly bc dd on a size 5 short girl looks fat.
or maybe your just not interesting.

I prefer brunette bitches myself. And smaller tits, like 1 handful each. And a tight vag.

Guys aren't low, they just have their priorities straight! So maybe if you put out as easy as the blonde bitches you wouldn't have a problem would yah?

personally, brunettes are way better than blondes

Look, don't get me wrong but what the hell are you pissed off about. Everyone knows that the bar is not where you go to start relationships, just to get laid. Seriously if you want to get f*cked then just tell whichever sl*mmer your interested in that you put out. F*cking problem solved.

To the male bashers out there, You know girls are not just walking patches of perfection who can do no wrong. I am drug, drama, and disease free and always have been. I had my own place, car, fiends, and life. I pursued my own hobbies (going out with my friends, designing random things, figuring out how things work and how to improve them, shopping,hiking, going to the ocean, windsurfing, boogie boarding, and chilling etc.). Was always careful with my money and had enough to take care of me for any emergencies. But whenever I hit on a one of those freaking patches of perfection I was always laughed at, mocked, or in the best situations put in the friend category.

Then after years of this, I just decided to workout and get in shape. Freaking hit the gym for three hours every day right after work for almost three months. Then guess what, lost my virginity and had my pick of girls who wouldn't talk to me beforehand.

Moral of the story, you don't know how much effort it takes for an overweight nerdy guy to get what is thrown at artist, jocks, rebels,skaters, gangstas, or even the peppy guys.

I mean do you really think all guys need to die for you to be satisfied with your lives? Does it even occur that maybe your discernment should be aimed at trying to find where the type of guy your looking for may be, show a little interest in their hobbies, and for Christ sakes be at-least partially accountable for your decisions and stop hating me because of them.

Lets face it blondes are easy!!

I like any girl, just don't look like you got hit in the face with a spiked club, and not a fatty, and you'll be fine.

Redheads are the way to go. Men are all perverted and are never happy with who they end up with, as they always feel they can do better. Now stop complaining and show us some breasticles please. Much love

Pathetic.

Most boys like to play around.

Guys do have different types. You obviously have been only hanging out with one type of guy.

A lot of guys will say a certain girl is hot, just because it's the social norm, and to fit in. There are a lot of different types of girls that guys like, and different girls like different things. Go take a look on 4chan for christsakes.

Stop with all the guy-bashing. It's unfair, and it's dumb. Girls are often just as shallow, and far more manipulative. (And this is coming from a girl.)

Not all guys are low. Your attracting or attracted to the wrong kind. I'll give you a pointer....... Go for a nerd! They are loyal, sweet, and sincere. I always had a thing for nerds. I married one, Been happily married 3 yrs now.

Yeah sex is all I care about if a bitch cant give it to me then, I will force fucking them in da asshole, and then give them a cumshot to the face.

comes down to age as a major factor, dudes don't think with much other then dick till mid-late 20s

i like women that can man handle me....

im blonde... ):
this is making me feel shitty
guys always think im a slut just because im blonde and have a nice body
its quite mean ):
now im insecure THANKS

Stop stereotyping guys by saying all guys are like that!

Oh and just so you know there was a study done to see what hair color guys found more attractive. Want to know were blond was? It was second on the list. The number one most attractive hair color was red heads.

Also there is a topic on this site that shows there are tons of guys out there that actually like women with small or average size breasts rather than huge ones. Me being one of them.

Women need to stop stereotyping the majority of men off the traits of a few assholes they have come across in their life's.

why do girls THINK they are so high?

guys are dicks.

not true we'll do any type of chic thats willing. a variety is awesome.

All guys are not low. My friend is 53 and small busted. She is an artist and a zen poet. She is a wonderful person and I love her so much. I also do not fu*k her

The thing is, most blonds are, for some reason, b**ches. It's kind of mean, but it is true. I like brunettes. They are so hot (some of them).

BIG BOOBS WILL JUST GET SAGGY WHEN THEY GET OLDER

First off, you're in the communist republic of california, so you're dealing with a pretty unique set, I can say this because unfortunetly I'm from california originally. Guys are pretty dumb and easily distracted by women in general. I myself will drop everything I am doing for a pretty red head with freckles. Nothing hotter in my opinion. Why not just hope for a guy that appreciates you for you and not just your breasts, rather than just aspiring to be lusted after? Pretty typical california girl, I suppose.

Well since im azn i personally think that if i WAS a guy (which im not) i would go for a brunette coz blondes r like... yea (no offense to blondes even though i didnt really say anything!)
I guess some guys dont really care about tru <3 and just want to have sex? Gosh i hate those dodgy guys D:

due to my heritage and all the emotions and talents that come with them scot/irish/creek/cherokee, i prefer any female that looks pre-american native. east indians, brazilians, tahiiiiiiiiiiiiiitians,(oohhhhh my favorite). dark waist-length hair i can brush, dark eyes, deep tan. a handful of breasts. i'd die before a married a blue-eyed skinny blond girl even if she loved me to death and was all over me. that's not want i need to wake up to for the rest of my life.

Are you guys kidding me?????Blondes are prettier than Brunettes?????No Way!!!!!!!!! I love Brunettes they look MUCH prettier than Blondes!!!!I've always wanted to dye my hair brunette!!!!!P.S. I'm a girl.Not any guy whose gay.

I like redheads and asians, way hotter than blondes and brunettes.

Honestly, its because most don't know what they want or can't articulate it. For instance, a reason i'm not attracted to women that are out of shape is because I lead a very active lifestyle.

So a woman leading a very active lifestyle is a high priority in my life. Looking at whether or not they are overweight coupled with asking them about their hobbies and workout habits helps me decide.

Some guys have this same preference, but when asked why they didn't like a girl they reply "She was too fat" instead of taking the time to explain the real reason.

Another reason for me liking those that are in shape, is because I take awesome care of my body, and find those that don't do the same sexually unappealing.

Just a few ideas.

not true.different guys different taste.my guy friends prefer brunettes,curvy but not fat..some like tall some like them petite and they dont really care on the size of the chicks boobies as long as they have breast.And ofcourse the character and personality is the most important..i know coz all my friends mostly guys =)

-Isobel-

I'm a guy and I hate bimbos. I don't drink much at all and all I'm looking for is a woman I can depend on. I see marriage as a duty to the wife and a bonding most sacred. Not all of us are low, I blame the media.

1 word.
Alcohol.

SIMPLE ANSWER!!! GUYS HAVE A ONE TRACK MIND AND WHAT EVER YOU MAKE IMPORTANT THEY WILL TOO, IF YOUR SAYING THAT BLONDES ARE HOT AND THAT THEY GIVE UP EASILY, WE WILL LISTEN. STREESS ON YOUR BEAUTY AND QUALITIES AND GUYS WILL HEAR THAT

im a burnette kinda guy for some reason blondes just seem stupid to me

Three questions you should really ask yourself...

1. Are you only seeing this in a bar?

2. Are you going after the right type of guy?

3. Are you only concerned because you're afraid of being shallow yourself?

Blondes? Really?

Listen up. Guys don't care; so while you may be feeling insecure, for whatever reason, that men are suddenly checking out some other girl instead of exclusively you and that girl has blonde hair, don't impose it on men that they all just hate dark haired women. It is not the truth at all. Nor is the size 0 thing; in fact, men absolutely love curves and you should not blame it on men if you're feeling bad about your pants size.

Pigs like drunk girls because they can take advantage of them. Sounds to me like you just hang around a bunch of shitheads, eh? A change of company might do you some good.

i usually read the other comments but dis is 2 much lol. i think is normal because GUYS WILL BE GUYS. i don't live in california but guys over here want big buts and breasts wit skinny gurls. is a guy thing. but guys that want a serious relationship look for more than that. i think your just lookin at the wrong group of guys. try lookin somewere else.

Damn it, I have a great comment to help out and I am in a huge line and doubt it will be read.

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Look at my profile and it will prove you are wrong

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I'm a decent looking guy and my fiance (By my choice) weighs 260 lbs and is by no means your definition of "the perfect girl." I'm happy and faithful and by no means dreaming of a different skank to sleep with.

Yes, I wish my pumpkin wouldn't look like a pumpkin when we go out but when I am lonely or want to do something, I have my best friend going with me. She is far better than the skanks I have had or could have had before (Once again, look in my profile) and I am truly happy.

Lastly, it would be nice if she had your boob size but since I haven't seen your picture yet, I doubt they are that size. If you are truly losing men to bimbos, try acting better toward the men you are with and they will stay. I promice as I am doing that now to my fiance.

Holy shit this got a LOT of comments.
I often express my hatred for the 'straight haired blonde bitches with the dark undertone' at the bar scene.
I am an attractive girl, with brown hair, and it's pretty curly. I know how to properly style it so i can rock the curls, but i always say that guys don't like girls with curly hair.
And only women love curly hair. Then everyone says no that's not true guys like curly hair!

And it's like ya, well i certainly don't get hit on as much when my hair is natural as opposed to straightened.

So i fucking feel you on the blonde hate. I can't stand straight haired bitches in the club. They are my enemy.

And perhaps girls with curly hair who are also at the club, think they same thing, when they see me with my guilty straightened hair.

I hate blonde girls with small tits it makes me feel sick
I women has to be fairy chubby but not fat with nice curves and intligent not a stupid blonde slag with like 500 dif sex partners what is the point in that ??

That's pretty normal for guys, yeah, always has been.

you are being as shallow as any guy.

you couldnt finish your complaint without mentioning your own DD's?

i have a pair of those big ones too. and i am a natural blonde. it doesnt mean guys will like me better. they, when immature, will find the one who gives in first. what, are you jealous of that? give in too, get drunk. i bet you bleached your hair already!

STOP PICKING ON BLOND GIRLS!

dont worry i look at black hair and brunettes.... bleach blonde girls look like clowns

lol my friend has the same problem shes dark nd sexy with 36 DD...shes one of my bestest friends nd guys hit on her nonstop for her breasts

that's not true, I don't want large knockers- too big is just freaky, or size 0- again, look healthy! it's really not all about looks, and if it is, is that a guy you really want to be with?

personally i dont think this is write because some blonde women with DD breasts have disgusting faces however most men are moving to brunettes as most celebrities now are brunette but dont worry your not missing out most guys want a blonde because there one night stands personally i prefer brunette

u are offending men with your statement . just because most of us prefer a certain type of woman doesn't make us low .
most of women would prefer david beckam over an average guy , are they low because of that?

lol this is funny actually but it sounds like your in the wrong place move somewhere else because blondes are swarming here and its no fun i like brunettes and they are so hard to find here but idk about california ive never been there but blonde seems to be a big hit everywhere else but here

You are categorizing all men here. Not all men are like this, the type of men you are looking to attract are clearly the "Coors Light" crew. Perhaps you are shallow yourself? Maybe you spend so much time trying to rope the player, or "Mr. February" and giving the cold shoulder to the men who do have good hearts and do have good minds? You are way way too hung up on physical features here I am thinking. I would suggest checking yourself firs. I think the problem lies there, not with anyone else.

Well hows your face?

After a few drinks it doesnt really matter here in ny.

See you soon in a bar near you.

God, I hate people from California, they are so conceited and stuck up. Thank God I don't live there. Brunettes do OK in my area. I think those kind of blondes do it in the butt more than brunettes and that's where their appeal comes from.

If it really bothers you dye your hair and lube up your a$$.

guys at bars/clubs usually aren't the knight in shining armor that you're looking for .. but then again why would you go there if you knew that.

So is this a "Imangryatguysforbeing"shallow"" kind of rant or is this a "Iwishmytitswereasbigashers" kind of rant?

-cheers, ricky

I dont know why guys like that either. If somebody is a size 0 they look so imbalanced with huge knockers. The human race is retarded. Its natural selection. They see a good looking girl and they're instinct is telling them to have sex with that chick so they can carry on that gene after they get her prego. That is just primitive animal nature and is ingrained into us all like it or not. Slim blonde women flash out youth and fertility which actually make them more f***able. I am a tall blonde chick but small boobs and hips that I got after I had my son. I am already used so my hips are bigger so I am not looked at by guys like I used to. I am used already.

One word: bitter. You've clearly just had a bad experiance with a lad and need to calm down a bit. I'm a little bit short and a little bit overweight. Why do girls always seem to like slim, tall guys? Booo hooo, please grow up!

its totally normal guys have always been that way and always will

we aint all into dumb blondes, i prefer brunettes, n i prefer girls who aint total slags, for one its never nice to think that the girl ya with has been roud the town a few times and who is known as the local bike.

Not ALL guys prefer blondes. But unfortunately, there is a gene that makes them prefer those light-haired ladies. Blonde hair is rarer than black or brown hair, so they are attracted to blondes more. Something about widening the gene pool. Still, that's just an instinct, and many guys will prefer brunettes, black-haired or red-heads. Or even artificial dyed hair! :P

As for the boobs thing, well, a lot of dudes like big tits of a girl, the same way a lot of ladies like big penises. However, there are many that prefer smaller, perky breasts or even flat chested women.

Ok im a guy, and trust me all guys arnt like this. (im not)
I think its mean, rude, gross how men treat women and treat them like bitches! Its so wrong!

My first advice to you, is stop LOOKING for a guy and get some self esteem. You're beautiful and you shouldn't need somebody to TELL you that for it to be validated.

My second piece of advice, is there are all types of men that like women in ALL shapes and sizes. I'm 5'4", size 13, DD, 40-32-40; and I haven't had a bit of trouble. Some guys like a size 0, some like a 5 or 6, some like a 12, some like a 22. And it all depends on your dimensions and height and all that.

[And, word to the wise, most ANY man will take a girl with some figure over a stick figure any day of the week. And I dont even mean fat, just boobs n @$$] :)

i've always prefered brunettes to blondes although it's really the entire package not a single part

im not like that but i like blue eyes

I know a lot of guys who like brunettes and girls with a little meat on their bones. Not all guys are like that. You just have to keep searching.

not every guy wants one. we just fantasize about them. doesn't mean we'll ever get with one :/

hey Brasileira i'm brunette and i want to stay single i would hang myself if i wernt single hair dos'ent determine anything thoes studies are just stupid.

get over yourself ,everybody gets rejected you will find the right one someday

This is because many guys are what we call Assholes. If you go to pubs to meet guys you will find a greater amount of Assholes than you would at a dance or public event. Alcohol brings the Asshole out in many. Myself, I do not determine beauty or value and a friend by how easily a girl will pull down her panties and spread her legs. There is more to life and a relationship. Believe it or not, I do not have sex with my best friends.

porn is what guys know of sex -- from age, what? 7?8? so a guy just looks for porn on legs, your DD cup peroxide bitz. the propaganda's all out there www and it works -- to any guy it looks like any remotely pretty babe has got to be in porn or feel she don't exist -- there's just so many of them doing porn now. If a guy never experiences real 'ho sex he feels he's missed life entirely -- don't blame him for being a man (then whip him when he's not) and treat your 3-hole doll sisters like they're pariahs -- they're your representatives..

Where do you live, L.A.? If it bothers you that much just dye your hair blonde.

ok, i'd say that is evolution. most guys, and gals too for that matter, are really pretty much still in the caveman stage.

yes, that is pretty much all that most of us have on our tiny minds. sorry!

I like dark haired girls (black or dark brown) the best.

The reason for the whole things with blondes I think it is because most guys see blondes as "easy"

Double D's?
Lucky you, I suppose.
Maybe you have a bad personality?
If you want attention so much, just dye your hair blonde and see if that makes life any better.

I don't care what a woman looks like I just care about what she is like, as cliche as that sounds I am 95%% percent serious.

Well I love red heads, blondes a close second. I can hold my liquor. I do have to admit, thin women who are naturally endowed are hot. Still some moments, I want a chick who I can discuss my favorite books, politics and so on with. It could be California thought, la la land is a different than the East coast.

I think it depends what they want them for. Personally I go for totally different types of girls depending on the situation. I admit a big DD titted dumb blonde slut is top of the priority list for fuck and run (any other guy says no to that, they're probably lying). However for an actual companion/gf, someone to respect, I prefer totally different girls apparence wise - brunettes, curvy with average size boobs and with a bit of race mixture in there for an exotic/interesting look.

So don't worry, at least you arent being used and abused like those blondes the guys go after!

Im sorry, all guys?? Saying that is like saying the womens place is in the kitchen. THe boys around you are a**holes

get outa cali. the place is turning into a sh*t hole. lol. move up to canada, there are so many beautiful women here, you'll blend right in! but seriously, not all guys are that bad. just ask my gf. we're a happy, mostly androgenous, modern couple who share responsiblities, bills, and life! maybe you just need to find a new place to meet people.

Not true I prefer short brunet girls with good figures but not necessarily big breast. In fact I don't like big breasts. Everyone has their specific preference.

"i like brunettes a lot more than blondes" - Agreed, I'm not attracted to blondes at all.. come say whats up to me!

Thank God I don't live in California. I'm 4'10", Chinese and so thin I don't own a bra. The men you describe wouldn't look at me (except to snigger) and I'm thankful they don't. I can get as many men, attractive to me, as I can fit in. You are exactly the shape and size of my friend Dorette and she gets waist-deep in blokes. Get out of the ghastly hole you live in and go somewhere civilised.

finding the wrong guy but i sure do love a blonde with huge tits and a nice butt some thing about it the truth is it actually genetic woman with big breast resemble godliness and lovely blonde hair is nice to have as well

You should totally call me. ;)

That is a joke.

Any guy that does that isn't a guy you want. You just have to keep searching. Really nothing more to it.

Women just need to understand that. They'd be happier if they didn't take it personally and didn't give up so easily.

I blame the media.

I don't know, maybe you're jealous because they're prettier than you? I really don't see what you're bitching about though, if you say guys like DD's and you have DD's, and I really don't think guys give a rats ass about hair color. Pointless question. Next!

Guys are always going to like what society tells them is hot. Big tits (fake hopefully) will always be better then small tits and a girl with a nice thin firm body always will out do a fat girl. Its just how society has developed.

Perhaps you should try looking for different kinds of guys in different kinds of places?

i like darker women... but besides being shallow like that it pretty much depends on music interest with me... I never even noticed this one girl who was very pretty until she told me what bands she liked... thats when I fell in love with her...and now she's my GF... so if there is a dark haired girl that likes the killers I'm down! :D

You sound hot. I am partial to brunettes myself.

When guys are young they just want to get their end in if you want different type of guy go for an older one

Don't be a cow about those blonde girls with DDs assuming they'll get drunk easily and put out easily, there are just as many brunette lightweight sluts.

Goodbye.

To the post above u couldnt survive without men just as we couldnt survive without women evan if u didnt create babies its just the natural order of things

And besides not everyman is like that, especially outside of america, i personally like pale skin and red hair (hayley williams is a goddess), but more importantly personality, smiles and humour are most important.
As 4 those guys uve spoken off u cant blame them 4 knowing what they want, and anyway genetics in men make them find the barbie look most attractive its a scientific fact!

They'll like her until she gives them chamydia. I think it's just a primitive male thing to look for big boobs, good bum and good hips, it's all to do with choosing a partner. Boys will like you if you have a nice personality etc etc so I wouldn't worry too much about it. And plus I'm blonde but I don't sling my knickers off for every guy I see who takes a liking too me.

Most guys are shallow but there are other guys out there who care more about a women's personality than looks (I'm one of them.) Also try avoiding guys that care more about looks because they usually are jerks in the end. Try and find a shy guy because they usually are the best picks for a relationship. You sound like your a pretty woman so don't feel down about yourself. Sooner or later you'll find a man that'll treat you right. =)

It's an age thing. Granted, most (MOST, not all) are always going to want big boobs, and thin frames. You're 5'5, and a size 5, so, as a female I'm going to say you're pretty fit. They go for the drunk blondes because they're drunk and the men will have an easier time getting into their pants than yours, you seem to have class.

There've been studies out there that do support the fact that more men immediately go for the blondes.

There're also studies that say brunettes are more likely to get married/exist in stable relatioships while blondes tend to remain "single" and have a higher divorce rate. Don't hate on me... I didn't come up with all this.

I think it's a California thing. But all the guys I know like exotic women better than blondes. But I guess a hot girl is a hot girl regardless of hair color.

nico633 women are way better than men. men are stupid because they only think their trousers.men only exsit for their junk. and i goolged men are worthless and i found proof they are women are becoming stronger and more independant so we don't need men so to conclude this your bacically good for nothing and the truth is that you men will never be above us so go kill yourslef you slimy piece shit

"Why are guys so low?"

Answer: Because, we want a good-looking bitch to fuck. Is that too hard for you to understand or something?

Shit, you need a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits, because you seem like a downer.

double Ds are nasty imo because they are just too hudge, your boobs should fit your frame not make you hunch over, hair color doesn't matter as long as they have an good face/body and a nice personality i'm good.

HEY THATS KINDA SEXIST....AND CLICHE!!!!

I DONT CARE WHAT A GIRL LOOKS LIKE
AS LONG AS I LOVE THEM WHO CARES?

EXCEPT WHITE GIRLS....NOT FOR ME SORRY :)

J.A.S

you men are so stupid! its just hair it can be died with lemon juice or chemicals. hair dos not determine you personanlity or weather or not you be good in a relationship.

I'm Californian and prefer brunettes with medium sized breasts who are your height. Also they have to be smart and I also love pretty eyes.

You are probably just ugly or super annoying. LOL

Not all guys are "low" most are, but not all. just keep searching, men are genetically inclinded to be more intrested in certian "looks" about a woman, but not all want blonde women and not all will run at the sight of the next best thing. i believe that only boys do that crap, boys and a$$holes. you'll find a real man, one who wont pull that crap and who'll stay with you. Just keep looking.

Well most guys are like that these days, they have the brains of a pig. Stay away from those.

Not true.. I'm a guy and dont have that outlook at all... Stereotyping all guys and their wants/needs/fetishes will never end up as a true assumption/stereotyping so don't stereotype just because it seems that way from your own experiences you will find someone but maybe dont just stick to drunks

The sad thing is there are a few good men out there but most men are just looking for sex with arm candy, most men think with their penis's remember that. Im sure there is someone great out there for you but he may not be the GQ kind of guy you may be looking for. Good luck!

Umm, actually women are JUST as shallow as men. Ok, so your biggest threat is a blonde. What do women look for in guys? Certainly NOT their personality so what does that say about them? I have seen MORE shallow women than men actually. MOST guys will have sex with anything. Women use guys for drinks, money etc.. The guys they DON'T use are always the Abercrombie and Fitch type guys. (I live in Vegas) So I don't see how guys are ANY more shallow than women, I think guys are less shallow.

Shadow you are a little boy you dont know much about anything i would be surprised if you knew how to pee straight.You will realize woman dont want some pushover who is starving to be in love develop yourself and become a man.As for trying to find a long distance relationship grow a sack man this is the path to a life of misery and being a complete loser dont worry about love have some fun be smart wise up or become a priest..

Listen most guy are shallow like that how ever not all are that way... i am very "young" but i dont think about sex i just want to find the right girl to stay with her hopefully a life time... im younger than 20's... i still havent found the right girl...i look for relationship of long distance cuse relationship aint about sex or physical contact...its about love(feeling) i belive i did fell in love once how ever the girl abandoned me... after i found out she had been dating other people... ._.

Guys are just shallow.

well drunk blondes are typically really easy

i think blondes in general give it up and are ditzy...and guys know that

but theres a difference though
men like blondes and skinny bitches just for sex..
well here in ny anyways
but then they like brunettes and darker women for a RELATIONSHIP..
ah so we have a better advantage haha.
plus most blondes are easy sooo yea.
idk if that made any sense ..

A lot of blondes are ugly... just saying.