Why are so many people on this website mean to eachother???

I don't want to offend anyone, honestly! And I know not everyone is mean on here but a large majority are and I'm just curious why?!?! Can we please just all be nice to each other....please?

p.s. I hope you all are having a good day/night/afternoon :)

they/we just want to be funny 9
other......(please comment below :) ) 5
I'm sorry....I've had a change of heart and I'll be nice now! 0
I like being mean....it brings me happiness to see others suffer ;) 4
we're just all assholes, I guess 17
I hate my life :( ....so i choose to take it out on people here 3
a lot of them are assholes, but i'm not :) 32
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Comments ( 73 )
  • anti-hero

    A lot of the time sarcasm and humor does not translate well into text.

    Also we are overrun with trolls.

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    • gummy_jr

      Yes.

      I wish sarcasm had a font /:

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      • anti-hero

        There is such a thing as a sarcmark (google it) like a ? Or an ! But there is no key for it.

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        • gummy_jr

          There is? :D

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    • Aliceee93

      Corrrrrrect!

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    • handsignals

      Oh yeah...that is soooooo true, your just sooooooo smart aren't you CC, your the greatest, I've modelled myself on you, I dream about you all the time, I just want to be with you...at night I cry myself to sleep, I worry about were you are who your with but deep down I know you'd be happier with out me...any way *put's both barrels in mouth pulls trigger* Fade to black.

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      • anti-hero

        Without is one word.

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        • AngelofMercy

          You suck cock is three.

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        • semenandgarspunkel

          he didnt even say without nijjer, also you forgot to correct "your" and "were" sieg heil doouche

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          • anti-hero

            Are you hitting on me? Oh Dave you horny child molesting bastard ;)

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            • AngelofMercy

              He's gay that's why he had his dad ban me. He's afraid of a grown lady. Ha ha ah!

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      • semenandgarspunkel

        nice, dont listen to the thumbs down this guy has a brigade of lolis that stick up for him just like charels manson, anwyay keep up the goodwork.

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        • anti-hero

          Jealousy doesn't look good on you. How many accounts are you going to make loser?

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          • AngelofMercy

            Dirty Birdy is in love with me ewwwwwww! Begone ugly lesbo!

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    • AngelofMercy

      Hey, Your Daddy banned me. Cant handle a grown woman, I knew it chickenshit. Run away. Coward. My husband thinks your a real punk. You work for your daddy. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOser! Kiss my ass. Peterr did

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  • richardbturgid

    OTHER: Some people are just plain stupid and need a good kick in the keister to bring reality home :)

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    • richardbturgid

      CASE IN POINT:

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-want-rid-of-her-60450/

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      • Ugh, that post was awful! The OP had posted several versions of the same story too, likely in an attempt to get more sympathetic responses. As negative as the responses were, it was nice to see people standing up for what's right.

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      • wow...I followed the link.
        I mean I can understand jealousy...but not to the extreme of wanting to get rid of your step-daughter to have your husband all to yourself!
        honestly, I think she needs help, maybe she needs to spend some time in the psychiatric ward. (not 100% sure what that is tbh)
        I don't want to criticize her because I've got problems of my own (not to that extent), but I also think that she didnt really give voters any other choice BUT to criticize her...

        P.s. Her username is sleepingbeauty87

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        • DangerousPotatoGuy

          She pretty much wanted to own the guy, something tells me she was also after something else besides the guy. I smell a golddigger

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  • Jeaneathean

    I think the mean ones are in a minority, but just perhaps the most vocal contributors.

    Is that the definition of a troll?

    As it says at the top of the page: We're here to help each other. Play Nice!

    I am having a good evening by the way, thanks. I hope you are as well.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Some people just need a high 5, in the face, with a chair!

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    • semenandgarspunkel

      dooooouche

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Same reason a lot of people are mean on the internet. When you've got hate in your heart but lack the balls to express it irl, getting it out of your system online is the next best thing.

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  • Don't worry, you're not being offensive by wondering that. :)

    I'm sorry if you've ever interpreted my comments as mean. Honestly, less than 3% of everything I've written on this site was intentionally hostile. I went through all of my comments once and counted them before arriving at that statistic (true story). My humour doesn't translate well here at all. Most of the time, I try to help or tease light-heartedly, but I do have moments where my patience with some people wears thin.

    From my perspective, only a handful of people on this site are assholes to the core.

    And, thanks! I had a wonderful day! :D

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    • nice comment :) thanks!

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  • Tommythecat.

    It's actually only a couple of people with multiple accounts. You can tell because the level of retardation is similar from one to another. There aren't that many tools on here 'cept for tha badass keyboard warriors that don't give a fuck hahaha.

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    • gummy_jr

      I can tell you that DragonQueen and Agirlsnestfriend are both the same people.

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      • dirtybirdy

        Shes AngelofMercy now.

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        • gummy_jr

          Oh wow what a surprise -___- she's ruining my gummy vibes.

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        • AngelofMercy

          And who the fuck are you lesbo. All you do is kiss his ass. What stick drek! Ugh your nasty. If your dirty. that clean your skanky puss than you'll have a man, and maybe some money to spend. on a nice outfit. I doubt you shop at Lord and Taylor. Wher do you shop. Lesbos r us!

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      • AngelofMercy

        Are they really. Dirtybirdy and Crudsade and peterr are all 3 horny bastards.

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  • There are also times when the IIN community joins together to defend unwarranted attacks on another user:

    http://isitnormal.com/story/why-did-you-join-iin-170844/

    Criticism in one thing, but just being mean, for meanness sakes, is ridiculous.

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  • loopoo

    I think alot of them are genuinely assholes

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  • semenandgarspunkel

    Most of them are juden, they have no feelings and therefore no souls. so it is ok to say mean things in return to them. after all hitler was a jude, and look how "evil" he was.

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  • Shiroyasha

    I have mixed feelings about this issue. To be honest, with the quality of some post, people are basically begging to be trolled. If people are going to keep posting stories about having a crush with their best friend or their teachers, they should at least put some twist so that it is actually interesting to read it. And obviously, they should write something intelligible as well.

    However, I have also seen people just being plain mean in posts which obviously were written with a lot of care, which is really sad sometimes, because you can actually see how they truly pour their feelings in their lines!

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      You know the people posting the "I want to have sex with my teacher" posts dont know how stupid this is or what a bad decision it is to pursue such a relationship.

      Why they are going to write it to begin with. Yes a normal minded person realizes this is a bad idea but the people in the situations clearly are missing something.

      This is common sense but not everyone possess such a skill. She should not take it any less serious simply because they lack it and end up in a bad situation over it

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      • Shiroyasha

        You are right, but those people can read all those other posts people have already read and commented on. It is just such a waste when the users in this site actually stop trolling and write really thoughtful comments, just for someone to appear the next day to ask exactly the same.

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      • semenandgarspunkel

        you are a pedo

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        • RomeoDeMontague

          Your trolling is too obvious. Nice try idiot.

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  • dom180

    Anomie. The society of IIN is fairly rigid and rule-governed, and it's quite difficult for the extremely wide spectrum of individual personalities here to express themselves because the only medium we have is text. There is also no strong collective identity (there used to be, but it's definitely waned) to hold the society together. When you have all those things you have an increase in anti-society behaviour, which sociologists often call "anomie".

    Despite that, I think most of us are nice to each other and even when we bicker (which is inevitable) most of us don't hold grudges except in extreme cases.

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  • highrider

    I agree with u everyone on here are aholes. Well most

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  • supaflyafro

    because we know you are sensitive and just do it because we love you anyway and wanna tame dat ass

    lol jk

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    See, we are all victims of casualty so trolls are going to troll, haters gonna hate, and potatoes gonna potate

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    • RoseIsabella

      Mmm...sour cream and chives.

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      • DangerousPotatoGuy

        all mashed up and ready to serve =)

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    • haha niceee ;D

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  • RoseIsabella

    Trolls be trollin'!

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    • dirtybirdy

      Yo ho you just be jellus of my diamonds and tats! You wish you had my muscular caramel lovers! My husband supports me! I win!!!! Me me me!!! I'm lazy! I win!!!! I ain't need no job! I suck!! Blah blah blah!!! Stop hatin me!!!

      Sorry love, I was just being a mockingbird right quick ;) I felt yucky saying those things :'( I need to go cleanse my fractured soul in a dirt bath now.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Them mockingbirds be some funny thangs.

        Tweet tweet!
        ;-)

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      • 69

        funny, i felt something similar.....

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        • dirtybirdy

          How dare you laff at me u ugly irish fag!!! U gonna feel my dragon claws rip up yo ass is what u gonna feel!! Now I stalk yo profile amd reply to all comments!!! All commmenntsss!!!!!!!

          ;p

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          • AngelofMercy

            So jealous, its funny. Dirty Birdy eh? Why don't u fix yourself so you won't be so jealous. You must be one ugly mutt. woof woof! ha ha ha!

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            • anti-hero

              Birdy is a hot classy lady. You are an ugly trashy bag of jizz.

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      • thegypsysailor

        Wow. Amazing. There's someone else on here that sounds just like that. Two of you is two too many.
        _runs away screaming insanely, flailing his arms in the air

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      • AngelofMercy

        I knew you were jealous of me! You just proved it to everyone on IIN. What a loser. Clean your filthy mouth. And start acting like a grown woman. Ain't getting no lovin. You must be fugly like a mofo! That's what my Daddy said! That's right Your so jealous your burning up. I got more tats jewelery men than you'll ever have in your hateful life. Beyotch!

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        • anti-hero

          I can smell your dirty butthole through the internet.

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    • They see me trollin' they hatinnnnnn'

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      • RoseIsabella

        Try to catch ya trollin' dirty ...

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        • Tryin' to catch me trollin' dirty.
          Tryin' to catch me trollin' dirty.
          Tryin' to catch me trollin' dirty.
          My fart is so loud;
          I'm trollin'.
          They hopin'
          That they gon' catch me trollin' dirty.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Hell to tha fuckin' yeah!

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  • tori

    I've been here off and on for 4 years. The ratio seems to be the same.
    I don't understand why people can be mean either.
    I did have a nice day! Sun was shining, hummingbirds busy at their feeders, my dogs play together nicely, got my nails done and have bestest BFF.
    Hope your day was nice as well!

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  • Thanks for leaving good/nice comments peeps :)

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  • robbieforgotpw

    I only shart on people's stories here, nothing personal
    *powerdumps himself

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  • Grapist

    They can't take a joke and are insecure about their small penises

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  • Sunshine:)

    It's literally a pecking order! Everybody wants to be the best.

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  • I try to not get into arguments on here. I posted this link a little while ago in response to an unsavory character prowling the comments the other day, but feel it is appropriate to do so here. This is how I imagine blatant assholes who go around spewing shit. The video is called internet bridge troll by college humor.

    <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMEe7JqBgvg" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMEe7JqBgvg</a>

    I watch this video sometimes when I see trolls and it makes me feel much more relaxed XD

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    • Sorry the link got screwed up. My bad.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Because it's the internet.

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    • DangerousPotatoGuy

      it's the "internet of things"

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    *shrug* since they are lonely and bitter and angry that all they have is a computer for a friend. I don't know that is my guess.

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  • AngelofMercy

    Dirty Birdy is really Peterr! What a laugh!

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  • SEWnanist23

    Some people like Me miss real Humanity when Humans Were forged in the Fires of strict discipline and became a bonafied civilized Person. There are a lot of zombified morons in this day and age. Like My Ye Olde name Stephen, people Have been heckling Me with STEF-en these days and that is not the way You say it because it was revamped from Stephan "Shte'Fawn" in AEnglisc Britannia. the "ph" in the name is a 'uni-letter' submissive "f" like in the two letter word "of" Love, it rhymes Even Stephen, it Rhymes!

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