Why can't people admit that women don't do it for themselves?

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If you're going out with your ass and tits hanging out, you most likely are not doing it for yourself. I really don't understand why it's so hard to admit that someone that goes with everything out is just desperate for attention, and people instead yap about how women do it only for themselves. Yeah. How dare anyone suggest that a woman showing everything off is doing it for attention. Women seem to also always pull that card whenever they want to whine about men staring at them.

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1WeirdGuy

1 year ago

I try not to stare but it is annoying sometimes. Especially when they do it at the gym. Chics go to the gym these days basically in lingerie and take instagram videos as they do deadlifts and you have to try to not walk in their videos.

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hauntedbysandwiches

1 year ago

I'm a women and women who dress slutty do it for attention for sure definitely isn't for themselves. Even going braless they do it for the stares from men or if they're lesbian from women

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- Ligeia
  
  1 year ago
  
  I hope you get picked. I don't wear a bra because it isn't comfortable, that's all. I typically wear a baggy top as well. Enjoy boob jail though
  
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  - hauntedbysandwiches
    
    1 year ago
    
    Bras are comfortable I love them no worries
    
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    - Ligeia
      
      1 year ago
      
      Women used to say the same thing about corsets. To each their own
      
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  Exactly. But according to people, a woman could literally go out in just her underwear set, and people will agree that she's doing it for herself.
  
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  - hauntedbysandwiches
    
    1 year ago
    
    Yeah I notice that sometimes makes no sense lol it's definitely lies
    
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litelander8

1 year ago

Like when men take they’re shirts off Bc it’s more comfortable. SLUTS.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  Sure, some might be sluts that are doing it for attention. But that is kind of different from a woman going out in clothing where everything is out....
  
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  - litelander8
    
    1 year ago
    
    But maybe some of those women are in fact sluts. And maybe some are in it for style or comfort. And maybe, just maybe, it’s not for anyone but that individual to decide how to dress.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      1 year ago
      
      Style or comfort? Yeah, okay. If a woman goes out dressed like a hooker or pornstar, I'm not so sure about that.
      
      You act as if I'm trying to dictate what they wear. News flash, I'm not. I am saying that it's lies when people claim that a woman going out in clothing that shows off her body is only for herself.
      
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      - Ligeia
        
        1 year ago
        
        Yes, it is for style or comfort. You can't relate because you're a male who has never been socialized to see yourself in terms of how others see you. Look up object consciousness, this is what fuels exhibitionism in women.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        1 year ago
        
        I'm not a guy, sweetheart. However, I like how you assumed that I was. Cute.💗
        
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Meatballsandwich

1 year ago

I always stare at them, whether they like it or not. They're putting it up on display, so I have the right to do it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  Yes, and that should be expected.
  
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Ligeia

1 year ago

So what if they're dressing for attention? Maybe they are. Doesn't mean they want creepy ugly guys staring at them. Keep it in your pants.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  Did you even read what you just said? What is this nonsense that you're even babbling on about? First of all, If a woman is dressing up for attention, a guy staring at you, attractive or ugly, would be her getting the attention she so desperately wants. Second of all, if you're showing yourself off, what do you expect? Of course men are going to stare!
  
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  - Ligeia
    
    1 year ago
    
    1. Why would you assume all male attention is equal, of course it isn't, some men are plain gross. No offense.
    2. Men will stare at women regardless of what they wear. The standards are arbitrary and impossible. Women shouldn't be expected to wear a fucking burqa — but they literally are, in some countries, because men in those countries think any woman showing literally any skin is a slut. Women have to stop trying to cater to the impossible standards, wear what they want, and ignore the staring. Or we might as well go back to the Victorian age and cover our ankles.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      1 year ago
      
      "1. Why would you assume all male attention is equal, of course it isn't, some men are plain gross. No offense."
      
      Of course it isn't, and I never said it was. But if you're dressing up for attention, you should be glad that you're getting the attention you're chasing after. Also, if you're wearing revealing clothing that's meant to make people stare, people are going to STARE, regardless on who you want to stare and who you don't. You can't just go out showing off your body, then get mad and cry about it because you're getting stared down by men that you don't want to look. That isn't how it works. Either deal with it, or stop wearing revealing clothing for attention.
      
      "2. Men will stare at women regardless of what they wear. The standards are arbitrary and impossible. Women shouldn't be expected to wear a fucking burqa — but they literally are, in some countries, because men in those countries think any woman showing literally any skin is a slut. Women have to stop trying to cater to the impossible standards, wear what they want, and ignore the staring. Or we might as well go back to the Victorian age and cover our ankles."
      
      Yes, they will, and they especially are going to stare if you're dressed in a provocative way with your ass and tits hanging out. That actually proves even further just how ridiculous women are for showing off their body for attention, then getting upset when they get stared at. The point is, what do you expect? And I never said women should wear a burqa. I just said that if women wear revealing clothing, they should expect to get stared at, and can't whine when they do. Wear what you want, but either learn how to ignore being stared at, or stop wearing things that are meant to catch people's attention. Plain and simple.
      
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      - Ligeia
        
        1 year ago
        
        "But if you're dressing up for attention, you should be glad that you're getting the attention you're chasing after."
        So you understand that some attention is more desirable than other attention but expect women to be equally OK with any type of attention? That makes no sense
        "If you're wearing revealing clothing that's meant to make people stare, people are going to STARE, regardless on who you want to stare and who you don't."
        Yeah it's inevitable, but that doesn't make it OK. You can control yourself and tell whether or not you're making someone uncomfortable by ogling them.
        "They especially are going to stare if you're dressed in a provocative way with your ass and tits hanging out"
        You missed the entire point of my statement. Men can find literally anything provocative. I gave the example earlier of ankles. Meatballsandwich replied to my post and made a point that even women in burqas get fetishized. It is impossible to meet the modesty standards men have for women because men have demonic libidos and their standards are arbitrary. So women should honestly ignore these standards and just wear what they want. "Ass and tits" are not sexual organs BTW.
        "The point is, what do you expect?"
        I expect to be stared at regardless of what I wear like I have since I was a preteen, and what every single woman (besides women with literal deformities, old people, and land whales) experiences regularly or at least multiple times. Before you ask, I don't dress like a slut. Most of the time I am wearing a sweater and jeans. This is what I expect from men, but it needs to change.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        1 year ago
        
        "So you understand that some attention is more desirable than other attention but expect women to be equally OK with any type of attention? That makes no sense."
        
        Whatever. Just don't get upset when you get that attention you were desperate for, even if it's coming from someone that you don't want it to be coming from.
        
        "Yeah it's inevitable, but that doesn't make it OK. You can control yourself and tell whether or not you're making someone uncomfortable by ogling them."
        
        Are you kidding me?
        
        "You missed the entire point of my statement. Men can find literally anything provocative. I gave the example earlier of ankles. Meatballsandwich replied to my post and made a point that even women in burqas get fetishized. It is impossible to meet the modesty standards men have for women because men have demonic libidos and their standards are arbitrary. So women should honestly ignore these standards and just wear what they want. "Ass and tits" are not sexual organs BTW."
        
        Yes, and like I said, that actually proves even further just how ridiculous complaining is. Also, ass and tits are quite literally sexual organs...And even if they weren't, they are still seen as such.
        
        "I expect to be stared at regardless of what I wear like I have since I was a preteen, and what every single woman (besides women with literal deformities, old people, and land whales) experiences regularly or at least multiple times. Before you ask, I don't dress like a slut. Most of the time I am wearing a sweater and jeans. This is what I expect from men, but it needs to change."
        
        That wasn't actually a question directed at you
        
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    - Meatballsandwich
      
      1 year ago
      
      Ironically, Burqas are a fetish some people have. lol
      
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      - litelander8
        
        1 year ago
        
        Bruh. Meatballs are probably a fetish.
        
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        Meatballsandwich
        
        1 year ago
        
        I wouldn't be surprised, there is a fetish for literally anything.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        1 year ago
        
        Mmm, I've always loved me some sexy meatballs....
        
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      - Ligeia
        
        1 year ago
        
        Exactly, it doesn't matter how modest you dress because men find a way to sexualize you. In my opinion, women should dress how they want to dress, not to please men or to avoid being sexualized, but as if men didn't exist. If only.
        
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        Meatballsandwich
        
        1 year ago
        
        I think pornography should be banned tbh, it's toxic to society. I'm pretty sure my own way of seeing women would've been drastically different if porn wasn't a thing.
        
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RoseIsabella

1 year ago

Why do you care about this at all?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  I do not. However, I see many people saying that women only do it for themselves, which is a lie, so I thought it was worth mentioning that this is an attention seeking thing. Let me know if you have any more questions!😁
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    1 year ago
    
    I think overly revealing clothes looks trashy on men, and women. I'm not interested in seeing other people's wardrobe malfunctions all over the place in public.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      1 year ago
      
      That's understandable.
      
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    1 year ago
    
    I think overly revealing clothes is trashy no matter who is wearing it.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      1 year ago
      
      Yes, that's true. Not everyone is interested in seeing your wang or your cooch. But I can't control what people do.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        1 year ago
        
        We're powerless over people, places and things.
        
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ospry

1 year ago

Whenever I see a woman wearing a hoodie or baggy sweatpants, I assume she's wearing it for herself. Those types of clothes aren't very flattering but they're comfortable as hell

Women who wear revealing clothing are doing it "for themselves" up until they get positive attention from someone they find attractive, at which point it magically switches from "wearing it for themselves" to "wearing it to look good"

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Tommythecaty

1 year ago

Women don’t do it to impress men, it’s subconsciously to compete against other women. It is a basic evolutionary trait.

Same thing as people complaining about women being attracted to abusive assholes. It is because those “assholes” possess more traits of those who fought off the lions, other tribes, ect.

Humans are animals and still have a lot of driving instincts at play that they are often quite unaware of.

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JellyBeanBandit

1 year ago

I think some women do wear those clothes because it's just the style nowadays. They might actually stand out for not wearing them on a night out, and they want to fit in with all the cool trendy girls. That being said, the whole reason these clothes became popular in the first place was clearly because of women wanting attention, so I do agree with your post somewhat. I don't see what the big deal is though for a guy to look at a girl (as long as he doesn't harrass her obviously). No guy would mind if a girl looked at him, in fact he'd probably enjoy it. I think there's an obvious double-standard though. If it's a hot guy, then girls don't mind at all if he checks her out, but if he's ugly then he's just being creepy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  Maybe. But for the vast majority, I think it's an attention seeking thing.
  
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- Ligeia
  
  1 year ago
  
  Yeah and that doublestandard is 100% valid
  
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Why can't people admit that women don't do it for themselves?