Why did my grandad say this when i was 18?

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I'm 25f- So basically I have an unusual situation I'd like to ask about ones thoughts, this was about 7 or 8 yrs ago. I went on a fishing trip with my nan and her partner (not my biological grandfather), who was about 60 something at the time I was about 19.
Anyways, I had my first kiss at age 18 with a guy called Edward. He showed up to join us for fishing on my aunt's partners side. I got drunk one night and we shared a kiss to see what my sexuality is.
I ended up telling my nan at some stage I kissed Edward (as she liked this guy as had met him before). I was shy and so didn't tell her directly but kinda laughed and whispered something like I kissed Edward. Later (cant remember what day as was there for about 5 or 7 days), me and my nans old partner were on the beach for fishing just us two he said I need to say something, Cherry (my nan), thinks she saw us 2 share a kiss and a cuddle, I said whaat?? He said yeah I told her that I give a peck and a cuddle with everyone or whatever he said. He also said "don't tell her I told you, as I dont want to upset her".
Why'd he say this to me? Why did he tell me to NOT talk to her about this?
He also married my nans ex husbands sister then he dated my nan when his wife died

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Oh he’s a creep. Make no mistake about it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    I HATE creepy, old men! I would spend less time old with the old dude. I also think that you are not obligated to keep secrets for that old goat.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    Maybe he felt that she got the wrong impression but that you and him were cool.

    I think sometimes when dudes don’t have bad intentions, they don’t realize the shit things coming out of their mouths. Like to insinuate to a young female to not communicate your feelings to family. If that makes any sense.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    That was really hard to understand, you should introduce people with their name first instead of saying “some random guy” then giving him a name halfway through. You say this is about your grandad but then you describe him as just your nan’s partner - which is he? The sentence at the end about their previous marriages was confusing and doesn’t seem relevant.

    I think you’re asking if it’s normal that your nan suspected you were kissing your grandad? If you are then, no, it’s not normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Na I am asking why did he (My nans partner who's not my biological grandfather), say this to me and also tell me not to talk to my nan about it?

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      • SkullsNRoses
        3 years ago

        He sounds like a creepy old guy who wanted to share his fantasy of kissing you. He knew it was inappropriate or he wouldn’t have told you not to tell your nan. Either he didn’t care that it would make you uncomfortable or that was part of the messed up thrill for him.

        If he’s still alive stay away from him.

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