Why do these people want me around if we have no real bond?

I've made alot of stressful friendships with males and females. Females were more like relationships. They always make it seem as if I'm a problem/asshole, so I leave them alone. And then they eventually try to contact me. It's frustrating because I do like them but its not worth the stress. If I'm such a bad boyfriend, why bother? Unlike most guys, if they really want out I don't stop them. And then my guy friends are competitive, immature, bullies, who are close-minded. I cut them off and they act like I'm fake or something, never realizing I did it for a reason. They act like we're such good friends when I have a different point of view of them. I'd tell them the truth about how I feel but then they want to fight or get highly offended. So I still hang out with them, feeling ok in the moment. These people NEVER like what I like, though I try to take interest in their hobbies and shit. So why do they bitch when I give them space or back off? They have other friends that are more like them than I am.