Why does he keep cheating

why does a cheater keep cheating? my boyfriend has broken down crying about regretting what he’s done and promises to change and that he wants to work on our relationship and be the best boyfriend but he continues to go behind my back and lie. why? how can people do this

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    Are you the one who has posted about catching him twice before? I just need to know to give advice.

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    • yeah i am

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      • S0UNDS_WEIRD

        Poor thing. How many times have you caught him now?

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        • 3 or 4

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          • S0UNDS_WEIRD

            If you're not ever going to leave him, I think you need to at least act like it. Asking him nicely obviously isn't going to work. Put on your tough girl act and ditch him for a few weeks. Maybe it will scare him straight. You have nothing to worry about. You can always get a cheater back.

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  • anabnormal_guy

    do you have a child?
    if you don't have a child,
    leave him alone. he is not ready for a real relationship...

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Hes probably not gonna change

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  • LloydAsher

    Dump his ass. Once a cheat always a cheat.

    If you can cheat on your partner I inherently cant trust you because you could cheat on someone you say you love. Doesnt give me much confidence in your loyalty.

    That being said I support enforced monogamy (not what you think it is) it's just shaming people who cheat or run away from a pregnancy. Shame is an important feeling. More people should feel shame when they do shitty behavior like cheating.

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