Why would a 25 yr old man date a 30 yr old woman?

My bro is 25 he's dating a 30 year old for past almost yr she's going to be 31 in December. He talks about her like she's great and how he wants to be with her forever but I'm just thinking her ovaries are dried out she can't give him kids she's old. I don't get it someone help me understand.

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  • sweetone89

    Why don't you be happy for your brother...that he found his love? 31 is not old. No, her ovaries aren't dried out.

    My mother gave birth to me when she was 37. My grandma gave birth when she was 41!! Women do not (usually) go through menopause until 50. Please educate yourself.

    And, to be honest, I think the older you are when you have children, the better parents you'll be.

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    • bbrown95

      Agreed!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Your brother is normal, but you're not normal. Now please get back under the bridge.

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    • Why

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      • RoseIsabella

        ... because under the bridge is the place from which you have come, and under the bridge is the place to which you must return.

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  • Ghostface

    Not everyone wants children, and frankly not everyone should.

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  • GaelicPotato

    I dont think OP is an adult.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Life partners and marriage are about a lot more than age and sex.

    Finding a partner that shares the same interest in life and dreams of the future that thinks compatible to you is not easy...

    Be very happy that your brother has found such a friend... Age is fairly irreverent and 5 years is nothing once you become a real adult.

    I hope you do as well...

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  • SwickDinging

    A 5 year age gap isn't much amongst adults. At 25 and 30 they are old enough to understand and make choices about their own fertility, so you don't need to give it any further thought.

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  • darefu

    You must be the same op that thinks 25 is the end of good life. You turn ugly, too old, and now dried up.

    I don't know why he would choose her, but I can think of a lot of reasons. Maybe: she's just past the point of thinking the world ends at 25.

    I knew very little about what I was doing or what I wanted at twenty (thought I knew everything), and at thirty I knew a whole lot more. Now I understand I'm still learning everyday.

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  • Pilum

    Lol this is another jab at the 25+ yr old women isn't it?

    Send them my way!

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    • SkullsNRoses

      Haven’t you heard? 26 is the new 80!

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    • 25 is okay but every age after that ovaries are gone by 30.

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  • a-curious-bunny

    Perhaps he doesn't see women as baby factories. Who'd a thunk

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Because younger people are often stupid and immature *hint hint*.

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  • Somenormie

    A 25 year old man dating a 30 year old woman is completely legal. because him and her are legally adults.

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  • Meowypowers

    30 is far from dried up. She's probably hot though. Why worry what your brother is doing in relationships?

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  • MrsAsher

    I have a biouse opinion.But I just turned 19 and my boyfreinds 23. Unfortunately we are unable to have children but when u really love someone it wont matter.I chouldnt
    imagine being without him.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    5 years is quite insignificant as an adult, especially post-25.

    Also LOL what? My mother was older than that when she had me. I also personally know two women in their 30s pregnant for the first time right now.

    Also, maybe they don't want kids. Lots of people don't these days.

    I suspect you just don't like her.

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    • Anyone who has kids at 30+ is a miracle because by then there are no eggs

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      • RoseIsabella

        You're pathetically bored, aren't you? Try opening a book, and reading.

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  • Grunewald

    Why wouldn't he?

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  • Curiouskitten444

    25 and 30 arent as big of a gap as 14 and 19 even though its the same year difference because theyre both adults but i can see how that may not make sense to a teenager/child.

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  • Absolutely, he should be dating an 18 years old.

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  • Rocketrain

    That's not a problem.
    It would be a problem if your brother is 15 and she's 20. But it's not. Also you wouldn't asking this if your brother is 30 and women is 25

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  • Goomats

    That doesn't sound like a crazy age difference. :-P

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  • jeremybrown75

    People can be with whoever they want, and when I was in college at 19 I dated a girl aged 20, she had dropped out a semester and we got along really well, great memories, as long as people are legally above 18, age is no boundary to love at all. Bye.

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  • BleedingPain

    Why should any two consenting adults date period?

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  • Tinybird

    Who cares? Maybe she doesn't want to have something the size of a grapefruit coming out of her vagina

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  • YE

    At least your brother is getting it from a wiser woman.

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