Wife is annoying
One thing about my wife that irritates me is she complains about things that happened in the past, especially when she complains about things that were clearly her fault. One example is a story she told me about being nearly r****ed by a guy on tinder (I'm not sure if I can say the word here). Woman, you made the decision to meet up with a guy you didn't know. And then when she complains about her mother's treatment of her. Okay, yeah, your mom was a bitch blah blah blah. What do you expect me to do about it? You're not with her anymore. Move on. Is she under the impression that I'm some kind of time traveler that can travel back in time and fix all of her stupid problems? And she is always crying. The crying is really annoying. She is always crying about my behavior towards her, but I'm really just giving her tough love because even if she is the most insufferable woman I have ever met, I still do love her. It's similar to raising a child. You give them tough love, but not out of mean-spiritedness. But because you love them. I do everything and she dare say I treat her bad? Wtf? That leads me to my next point. She is ungrateful and unappreciative. I do everything, yet she still complains and acts like I'm the worst husband ever. I get her gifts, I work my ass off for this family, I make sure shit is taken care of, and she still wants to whine? What is wrong with her? Maybe she should go learn something instead of whining and acting like I'm the worst husband ever. Oh, and another thing, she says how I don't spend enough time with her. Are you kidding me? I have a job. I don't have the time to spend time with her. Would she rather us get evicted? I don't think she would. And, based off her behavior, I don't believe she deserves my time. Another thing that never fails to infuriate me is when she claims I'm "over-reacting". We went to a gathering not too long ago, and I caught her and another guy getting just a little bit too close to each-other. When I confronted them about this, she said I was "over-reacting". Whatever.🙄 I know what I saw. If you have enough balls to go messing with some other guy, at least have the balls to admit it, and don't make me doubt what I saw with my own two eyes. And I despise when she plays victim. Quit acting like a saint and just fucking own up to it. It's not hard. On top of all this, she always brings up things I said/did to her in the past whenever we argue. Like the time I put my hands on her. That was only one time, which I apologized to her already. We all do things when we're mad. Though, to be fair, she deserved it. I told her to stop getting me riled up and she did it anyways. What did she anticipate? I did also tell her she should just go khs. We all say things we don't mean when we're mad, and again, I already apologized to her for it. What does she want me to do? Get on my knees and beg her for forgiveness?
Tl;dr my wife is ungrateful, unappreciative, annoying, and then acts like I'm the problem in this relationship.