Will anyone wait for me ?

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I’m 24, and a virgin, I’ve started in the dating game and honestly it sucks a lot. Being shy is hard enough, I finally thought I’d found someone but he left because ‘affection’ was missing after 2 months I was just getting comfortable to be staying at his... even though he never mentioned anything or tried anything on... I thought the men was meant to make the first move ?? Especially when he knew I hadn’t had a boyfriend before.
Anyway he quickly moved onto another girl... which has made me think... is it because I didn’t jump on him? Will anyone ever understand me? And respect it takes me time ?

Or will all men just get up and leave ?
I liked him because we started talking and it wasn’t about sex or kissing it was just a fun convo, even when we met he was such a gentleman.
Now I’m back in the dating game all the men I come into contact with either wanna show me their dick or cuddle on the first date.... and it just isn’t me... maybe I’m not affectionate enough?

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  • CozmoWank
    5 years ago

    You'll meet the right guy someday. Until then focus on developing yourself and your interests. I find it easier to meet people who share interests.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Don't worry about it. You're fine, there's nothing wrong with you. He just said that shit, because he wasn't that into you, hon. Don't be in a rush to lose your virginity. Save yourself for someone you love who loves you back. Forget about that stupid guy. Most guys usually make the first move, believe me.

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  • libertybell
    5 years ago

    I think it's fine to wait until you are ready. Don't do anything that you don't want to do.

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  • xxLucifer
    5 years ago

    I'm 18 and a virgin and also hasn't even dated anybody or had a first kiss. There are guys out there who are willing to wait. It'll take longer to find someone who is. Just keep on trying and eventually you'll find someone.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    No its not you. A normal guy won't be trying to jump your bones on the first meeting. I am of the same mind. I like to get to know the person a bit before going for home base.

    If you find you really like the guy you could show him by giving him a quick kiss on the cheek as you are leaving. That should give him a hint you are interested. 😗

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Oh yes we kissed. But he made me feel like I wasn’t fast paced enough and that I should’ve initiated sex on like the 5th date... I’m worried like if I don’t change no guy will want me ?

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      • lordofopinions
        5 years ago

        By the 5th date you should be wearing out the same set of sheets. By Tha 3rd date you should have lots of info and vibes if he is the one for you, at least for now. :)

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      • NormBreadstick
        5 years ago

        You say the 5th date, but the real way is to reverse-rape someone before the first date, it's even better if they don't even know that you'll be going on dates.

        holy crap I am bored an insensitive

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    I can't really relate, since I became active at a very early age.
    I won't say it's good or bad.
    But most guys will try to ' score '
    I've known girls that make a guy wait.
    Sometimes it works, sometimes he just moves on.
    Maybe not easy, but you need to find a way to start as friends.
    That might mean a co-worker.
    Or store salesperson you see a couple times a week.
    You slowly get to know each other.

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