Women, how would you react if your boyfriend wanted to get a paternity test
If you were pregnant, and your boyfriend/husband asked to get a paternity test once the baby was born just to make sure it was his, what would your reaction be? He doesn't want to get it out of any real suspicion that you've been cheating on him, just as a precautionary measure, just to be 100% positive that it's his. You hear all the time about guys who find out years later that they've been duped the whole time into paying for and looking after someone else's kid, believing the whole time that their partner was kind and honest, and that scenario is just too devastating to be even only 99% positive it's yours (like, you wouldn't buy a house and feel satisfied knowing that there's a 1% chance that the payment didn't go through, and your house could be repossessed years later). I can understand why women would be offended at the request, but then it's easy for them to be offended when they don't ever have to worry about this. It's physically impossible for this to happen to them, so even the idea of it can't scare them. But this is a man's literal worst nightmare, so it makes sense for him to want to eliminate even the slightest possibility of it ever coming true.
Note: Obviously I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with raising a non-biological child when you're aware it's not your biological child, like if you adopt. But to be tricked into thinking a baby is yours when it's not, and to be conned out of thousands of dollars and years of your life in order to raise it, would be absolutely tragic.
I'd be so offended that not only wouldn't I allow it, but I might even break up with him | 6 | |
I'd be very offended, I wouldn't allow it | 2 | |
I'd be offended, but would allow it, and would get over it eventually | 3 | |
I'd understand, I'd allow it, but would be a little hurt | 5 | |
I'd completely understand, I'd allow it, and it wouldn't bother me at all | 4 |