Would you date a fat person?

chubby and a little overweight are one thing, but obesity is a problem. I can't even get turned on to an obese girl. And most girls say that personality is everything even though in reality they chase around the good looking guys. They don't even give the chubby ones a chance to show their personality. I don't care about the 12 girls out there on this site who did give a chubby guy a chance, I am talking about the other 98 percent. I see this every single day of my life and is just a sad fact.

I wouldn't have a problem dating a guy who was a bit chubby. If he was seriously obese though that could be a problem. Especially for his health, I mean who wants to get close to someone just to watch them slowly kill themselves with food? As long as they are healthy, that is the main thing :)

And I've personally never been with a bigger guy, although I imagine they'd be good to snuggle with :) Of course physical attraction is very important when you're choosing a potential mate, or else it's like you're dating a friend (platonic feelings), but I find that often I don't feel physically attracted to someone when I first meet them, but when I get to know them, I see them in a whole new light. (Just like if a hot guy is a dick or a complete meathead/idiot, I don't find him attractive anymore). I met the guy I'm seeing now through a small get together at a friend's house where I didn't know anyone but the host. I didn't find myself attracted to him when I first met him, he was just cool to talk to. He has this big, dark scar on his cheek from when a dog bit him when he was a kid, and I didn't find that attractive at first, but the more I get to know him, the more I like him and the more attractive I find him. I find the scar really sexy now, along with the rest of his features... Mmmmm :)

i love thick woman, i will pick one over skinny woman anyday

I would date her and educate her on being more healthy and then she would feel better about herself. If your fat and just accept it and are comfortable with it thats just denial.

Personality is everything, but you have to show that you care enough about yourself in order for someone to think you could care about them.

I would porbably date or go out with a plump girl, but not one that's super heavy.

Chubby and obese guys are OK for me, as long as they don't have an "apron" (aka: panis).

Physical perfection is lower on my list of requirements for a potential date.

I'm ay and i'm dating a fat boy. He has got huge moobs and sometimes I play with them to arouse my bf. I'm fat too

I dont have a fat fetish
I am not sexually attracted to fat people
If I had a choice I would prefer skinny
However if I loved this persons personality I might date them despite the size

Yes. In fact, I dated quite a few fat girls, some of whom became my girlfriends (one at a time, of course!!!). One comes into mind (this was awhile back): She was a very short, very fat girl while I was a very tall, very skinny guy (she stood under five feet while I stood over six feet and she far outweighed me!!!). She eventually became my girlfriend. After she and I got to know each other better, she boldly challenged me to a weightlifting contest, figuring that she could easily outlift me because she was way bigger than I was even though I stood way taller than she did. There was a big, heavy, fully-loaded barbell set up on the floor. While I watched her, she easily swung it up over her shoulders and then she easily lifted it over her head. I figured that if she could do it, I could do it simply because I stood way taller than she did. When it came my turn, she watched me while I lifted it up from the floor. While she continued to watch me, I tried to lift it over my head. I COULDN'T EVEN GET IT ABOVE MY KNEES!!! I felt embarrassed because of my being a male and her being a female and also because of my towering way over her but then it also turned me on that she easily outlifted me and it also turned her on that she easily outlifted me. While she and I stood in front of each other afterward, I was looking way down at her while she was looking way up at me when she and I suddenly began kissing each other passionately while we were both caressing each other!!!

I'm not "chubby" myself but I was with a chubby guy once but he was super hot anyways. It was lovely :) I love the feeling of being with a big guy. Plus there's nothing worse than those little 5'1" emo boys with the pants smaller than mine. I'd take a chubby boy over that anytime.

Must admit, although I dont have a problem with fat people, I am not attracted to the doughiness, all my men have been slender and muscley. But whatever floats your boat :P

How fat? If only 10 or so pounds overweight then yeah, that doesn't make a difference, but if you're talking REALLY FAT..no, sorry. =[

No I could not, I dont find overweight ppl attractive.

I guess I could date a chubby person but a really over wait person I would have to say no because they some times smell.

I love Fat Women and Chubby women but I would pick a slim or normal weight all day any day! But it's not all about looks it's about personality too

My sister just finished telling me a story about what happened to her a couple of weeks ago. She's a big girl, and has had no trouble attracting men. She always has a boyfriend or toy to play with, but she signed up for an online dating website just to see what would happen. She was talking to this guy for a few months online and on the phone, and they got to know each other pretty well. He knew what she looked like, and that she was overweight. He told her she was perfect- his ideal girl. He told her about this other girl he met that ended up being "like 400 pounds" and he told her how much of a turn off this was, but that he didn't think she was that big and he really liked her personality so he thought it would work out. They met up, and after only half an hour of talking, he told her it wouldn't work out because she was too big. It makes me sad that he could have had his dream girl, but he turned her away because of some chub.

i would never date a fat guy. i like my men muscular. Im a fit girl, i want a guy who's in shape too. its not hard to take care of yourself. People have such low standards now days. Whats going on? Without physically attracted to someone, there is nothing.

Honestly, nope. I'm not into fat, if it's a bit chubby or not kinky ok. But far is a no no. Also, far girls can be pretty and overweight guys are always disgusting imo

To be honest, ive always wanted to lick a fat girl' s pussy, , it's funny and it'lll make her feel better because if she's fat no one licked her before so i'd like to lick a fat hairy pussy

I currently am. Kiiinda... I wouldn't be with someone obese, but some extra chubbyness doesn't bother me. Whatever they look like they have to have a good personality regardless.

totally depends on their personality

personaly I only like fit guys.never had a thing for even slightly fat.

If you want to look and feel good, you've got to work for it. It's implanted into our unconscious motives to be attracted to those who are fit and more likely to survive. Sure, personality rocks, but the initial attraction is all physical. You learn more about personality the more you communicate with them, and if the physical attraction is there, I don't see myself having any sort of desire getting to know them.

Depends.

inoright!!!!!!!!!! like, no one falls in love with your colourful inside world at first sight, the gym is your best option!

If shes realy rich and wants to share I DONT CARE A FUCK ABOUT THEY WEIGHT

Im a big girl and i know howvoy feels not to be liked so i would go out with a big guy if they asked but tjey seem to only like the thin girls to!

I mean, it really matters about personality, but I LOVE me that muscle...so I had to pick no.

well a bit of chubby is fine.
not fat, but i totally dislike skinny guys btw.

I love fat girls if one want to date me i will say YES!!!

A bit of chub is fine. A lot of fat is unattractive to me.

I would never fat people are smelly cos they are always sweating, eating and shitting

So long as the girl isn't in at any serious health risk, I prefer "fat" girls. I find bigger girls attractive but obviously if she's unhealthy and doctors are recommending her lose weight I can only support that.

Im pretty sure a girl will date a fat guy as long as he has a great personality since all girls say these days,"Personality come first before looks.If hes cute/hot but has an ugly personality then hes not dateable." So Im guessing if that guy is ugly,fat,caveman looking, but has an awesome personality then a girl will date him. I would never date a fat chick with too much celulitis.Plain gross..

Hmm i dont mind a lil bit of flab just aslong it's not ALOT of flab XD

Obese- oh, hell no!
Fat- no way.
Chubby - most likely not.
5-15 lbs above their 'ideal weight'- probably.

It depends on their personality and if they're carrying the few extra pounds nicely. With today's lifestyle, most people are 5 - 20 pounds above what the "normal height/weight" graph says we're "supposed" to be. Even I could stand to lose 10 lbs.
But if you're shlupping around with 30,40 or 50 pounds extra... it sure ain't your big bones or your metabolism that's causing it. Put the fork down, eat less and exercise more.

Chubby I would, fat I wouldn't, and it's not that I think fat people are ugly or gross or anything, it's just I'm not attracted to them.

My hips have weight limits thank you. Or if you prefer, I like not to look like wily coyote after a cliff fall.

remember the movie shallow hal? if you automatically cut someone off just because of their weight then you are forgetting about what treasure this person could be on the inside. Living like that can make a person be more humble and ultimately beautiful on the inside which is a lot better for at least a relationship. If all you want is a once night stand then that's another story, but in that case you will never be happy.

you should have made the options separate for men and women because you would see a trend there.

I wouldn't have a problem if they were a bit chubby but I couldn't imagine sleeping with a morbidly obese guy. You could get trapped under there and be crushed/suffocate :P Also, it would be very sweaty.

I had a relationship with a big guy once. He was also a 'feeder'! I ended up piling on the pounds...there are a lot of theories to this but I would be hesitant to date somebody so overweight. It suggests that the person doesn't care about themself so how can they care much for a significant other? I'm talking obese, no a few pounds.

i used to be super shallow and overweight dudes were a major turnoff for me. obviously i grew out of that because my fiance is around 240 :p

I think he's outrageously sexy, too

a chubby girl would be ok but like a fat ass sitting on the couch eating hot dogs or chicken i would rater any size but a fat ass

I have seen really hot fat guys before, well I have only met two but Im not usually into chubby people.

Honestly I find a little chubby-ness on guys really cute, but if he's really really fat then thats just a turn off.

Finally a post which has the "personality" option of which I request on almost every post about girls :D Just a shame it's underrated on the votes >.>

TOTALLY! I will date any shape or size. Personality is what shines through. BUT, I will not date someone who is obese. I'd be fearing your life more than paying attention to that person. I'm a girl by the way

i dnt really mind on how dere lookz i juz care about dere personality i mean well if dere was a girl dat is obese i woul;dnt coz i dnt wanna see dem killing dem selfs when dere eating so much food i juz couldnt bare to watch it but if dere nawt obese WHO gives a crap if dere fun and stuff liek dat date whoeva

i have to be honest...i care a lot about appearance. i'm not looking for the perfect man even cuz i'm not perfect but i prefer an able-bodied man instead of a fat one. it's not easy to find a man who has got a good character and looks pretty too...when i begin to date a cute boy then i realize that he's superficial and conceited so i drop him. but i'm not attracted to fat men even if they have a good character...they just can be friends to me. so i'm thinking to practice chastity so i won't get too many problems