Would you date someone 14 years older than you?
I am 63 she is 77. she also is a hoarder.
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I am 63 she is 77. she also is a hoarder.
You're both old. No offence. Dont see the issue here if you can tolerate hoarding.
At your ages, I don't think that age gap is too big of a deal, though the hoarding would concern me.
Ages doesn't matter. I want to be intimate with someone 24 years older than me.
Hoarding, however....
I'm only voting on the hoarding thing. Don't do that to yourself at this age.
She invited me over for homemade Rubens. I walked into a hoarder's apartment. Suffocated with trinkets, knick-knacks, and a refrigerator full of food, spoiled, old leftovers, etc.. she won't clean nor throw anything away! But wants me to stay with her all the time.
I lived with a hoarder with two years. She was over 250lbs and rarely bathed. She essentially tricked me into being her maid by moving in. Her house was so bad she actually lost custody of her (very underweight) children before I had moved in.
Hoarding is a sign of mental illness. As an older person I would be very concerned for your physical and mental health for you to get involved with her.
If I were you I would go no contact entirely! Why are you even associating with her at all?
How about 30, 40/70 60/30 obviously I don't think 40/10 or even 45/15 is okay, however, once the youngest of the pairing hits late 20s or over 30, then I think it is totally up to them. Anything over 10 years difference to me has seemed to have problems but as I get older I can see opening those doors a little more.
You could. Sort through her shit without her knowing and create an account. Be better.