Would you ever pity fuck someone you weren't attracted to?

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(If you're not single then imagine you are). If you had a friend who was feeling really unhappy at the moment, maybe they were recently dumped or are just going through a tough time in their life, and you knew they hadn't had sex in a while, would you have sex with them if you thought it'd really cheer them up and make them feel better about themselves? The only thing is though that you're not attracted to them, they're not hideous or have bad hygiene or anything, but you feel absolutely no sexual attraction when you look at them. You're not really close friends with them, so there wouldn't have to worry too much about spoiling your relationship. It'd just be a casual one-time thing to cheer them up. It also wouldn't be their idea, they're not trying to pressure you into it or anything.

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  • farkelu
    1 year ago

    I did it once passively. In other words, I didn't find her sexually attractive but I let her have her way with me. I regretted it after.

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    A few years ago a woman I knew invited me over to her apartment. When she opened the door and greeted me I was terrified. She's American but was speaking in a heavy Scottish accent and explained to me she was having a dissociative episode and even consciously understood she was having a psychosematic reaction but had no control over the alter personality that had taken control. I asked if it was some kind of a joke or a prank and to please let me know if it was. It wasn't

    She told me about her long history of sexual abuse by her own father and how no one believed her when she tried to reach out for help. She told me how it fucked her up and she showed me her art room, which was a mostly empty room lit by a black light with disturbing, macabre paintings and drawings she'd made about her abuse as a form of processing trauma

    Then she climbed on top of me, took off her shirt, and started kissing me. I tried to tell her to stop, that I thought what she was trying to instigate wasn't healthy for her or for me. When I tried to physically push her off me, she'd grab my face between her hands and tell me with an unnervingly cold tone in her voice

    "I. NEED. This"

    I didn't know what she would do if I resisted. I was afraid that if I got her off me and tried to leave the room or her apartment that the next person who entered there would find her corpse. She was obviously unstable and in a bad state and I had no idea what harm might come to her if I were to leave. So I stayed. And I let her do what she wanted, praying that it would end soon so I could leave, knowing she'd gotten what she wanted and wasn't a danger to herself

    I didn't find her personality or her appearance to be attractive at all. I didn't pity-fuck her though. I fear-fucked her because I figured that anything she did to me would be more easily repaired than anything she might do to herself

    Christ, I'm not in a good place tonight

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    • RoseIsabella
      1 year ago

      Your experience is what I would call rape! 😰😱

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      • ospry
        1 year ago

        What do I do then? Most people's responses are like the other response to my comment--they don't see it as rape

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        • RoseIsabella
          1 year ago

          How long ago was it?

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      1 year ago

      I wouldn't call that a pity fuck, I'd call it a fear fuck like you said, so I wouldn't say that applies to this question really. Still though, I'm glad you posted this if it helps you get it off your chest. I wouldn't call it rape since you technically did decide to go through with it, but still it probably felt like rape since you felt like you didn't have much of a choice. Maybe you should speak to a therapist about this if it's still causing you to feel any trauma. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best in overcoming this anyway.

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      • parsnip_blurbz
        1 year ago

        That is 100 percent rape.

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    I guess I pitty fucked a dude once. We were drinking buddies and he said he hadn’t been laid in 2 years. It was pointless for me. But most one night stands are.

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  • Grunewald
    1 year ago

    No, never. I pity-hugged someone though. Then he asked me if he could kiss me and I said no and he did it anyway. I let him do it because I had been his unrequited childhood crush and he was really drunk and I didn't want the rejection to scar him for life.

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    • dude_Jones
      1 year ago

      As an Agnostic, I don’t say this very often. But maybe God channeled his grace thru you in a way in which you are completely unaware.

      ♥️

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      • Grunewald
        1 year ago

        Thank you, dude x.

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    Never, no, absolutely no way. I wouldn't even KISS someone I wasn't attracted to. So to think of FUCKING them. I think I will gag, and not in a "good" way.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    No I wouldnt. But one time I did this chic and her pussy stunk terribly. The whole room started stinking. I didnt want to just say it to her but I was about to vomit.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    1 year ago

    My answer is no. Their personal issues are their problem, not mine. XD

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    1 year ago

    Hell no.

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