Would you prefer a virgin or a non-virgin your first time?

So if you're a virgin yourself, who would you rather have your first time with? Or if you already lost your virginity, who did you prefer before you lost it? Did it end up how you wanted it to be?

(I'm female) Prefer a virgin. 288
(I'm female) Prefer a non-virgin. 206
(I'm female) It doesn't matter. 173
(I'm male) Prefer a virgin. 682
(I'm male) Prefer a non-virgin. 216
(I'm male) It doesn't matter. 252
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  • CheyChey

    For my first time I would prefer a virgin like me there's something so poetic and beautiful about that innocence, forget it being awkward we could learn together practice and practice

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  • jucedaguy

    Virgin or more practiced, I didn't really care. Sex for me is about the giving of pleasure to the other person.
    So as long as I can get her off I'm happy.
    I physically can't cum unless she does. Sometimes It's a curse, but I just love making her squirm and explode till she can't take any more stimulation.

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  • Imsupernormal

    I want a virgin slut.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I would prefer someone who is experienced... Someone who could "guide" me properly in the Art of Lovemaking. I feel if I did it with a fellow virgin that there might be too much awkwardness and we might end up getting some things wrong.

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    • dazjman

      But there's as much chance that an "experienced" person has no clue, and that a virgin knows exactly what pushes your buttons. Or so a survey said recently...

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  • pikaaapower

    I'd be lying of I said that it doesn't matter. To be frankly honest, I wouldn't mind wooing a non-virgin because at least he'd know what he's doing. But I prefer virgins LOL it's cute being each others first and being embarrassed about not knowing what to do next.

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  • Saycheese

    Wow... it's crazy how it is opposite for the females and males.

    But I'm still a virgin and it doesn't matter to me. As long as we both can laugh at each other and have fun. :)

    I know even the experienced guys aren't always the greatest, everybody has their own style they like. It all has to do with communication. Which I for sure hope that my partner would do for me because I know for sure I would let him know what I like and don't like.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Which ever one is easiest to tie up and enslave.

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals

      Ooh you're arousing me there lol

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  • Abby13

    Anyone can "prefer" anything, however if someone really cares whether or not you are a virgin, then they are jerks and they aren't worth your time.

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    • Oh most definitely! I would hope that most people who have a preference, wouldn't care about it anymore if they got to know someone and then learned their status.

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  • rhythmness93

    lol. virgin and virgin = awkward as fuck. unless you're both very commited. I was glad I lost it to a slut. slay the hood rats; practice for the respectable.

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    • Are you saying that any girl who isn't a virgin is a slut?

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      • rhythmness93

        not in the least....I'm saying that there are promiscuous women and not so promiscuous women...kind of a dumb assumption of you.

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        • Also, since you're pretty much saying have sex with a whole bunch of "sluts" so you can practice for more respectable girls... then that makes you a slut yourself. Why would a respectable girl want to be with you, if you've only thought about all the girls you've fucked, as sluts and practice?

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        • It wasn't an assumption, just a question. Just the way you worded it, made me question what you were getting at.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Long as they are good in bed that is all that matters.

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  • Bumholelover

    i am a virgin i am a man im 25 and proud of it, i dont care what anyone says, and would like my first time to be with a virgin, so if there are any girls that live in or near gloucester uk that would like to get to know each other, go out for a few dinners and see how things go from there leave me a message if you want my email message me as well.

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  • Tia_

    I was a virgin who was with a virgin. I didn't care either way. But looking back being with someone with a little experience might have been nice. Or maybe just a little more common sense on my end would've helped. My first time went laughably wrong.

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  • Darkoil

    It didn't matter to me, I was convinced I would be awesome at sex before I had even had it. All I was interested in was that the girl was really hot.

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  • kit291

    My friend was a virgin and she told me he put it up the wrong hole now shes a nun!!!!!!

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    • Legion

      lol

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      • Jackie'spoz

        I knew he'd sink my battleship with his huge black torpedo but I let him anyway.

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  • Ladychick

    When you lose your hymen your not a virgin so you can lose your virginity by putting in a tampon

    2014...

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  • Ladychick

    they thing with fucking female virgins is that you get blood all over your cock with is fuckin gross in my opinion on the other hand their all inosent and nervous and you get to teach them what to do so I'd choose a virgin

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    • Ladychick

      I'm a female virgin

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  • dazjman

    I would want us to be eachothers' only one ever... So I'm planning to wait ages for the right one...

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  • bemah

    What if there had only been one guy before, and it was rape. Would that make a difference?

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    • I would not count rape as a loss of virginity because it was not their choice.

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    • dazjman

      Apparently rape does not count as loss of virginity. Or so I read in an encyclopedia...

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  • Pisslan616

    I think I would prefer a virgin for my first time. Seeing as I am 20 that might be unlikely to happen now.
    If we are both virgins then if we are both shit then neither of us will know any different. We could sort of learn how to do it better together which might be quite sweet.

    I think that maybe girls who have been sexually active for years might expect me to know stuff that I don't. At least if its disappointing and she is a virgin we can be disappointed together.

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  • i prefer a none fucked pussy

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  • Geepee13

    My boyfriend and i lost our virginities to each other 2 years ago and im not gunna lie, it wasnt good the first few times but with more practice it started getting better. It's alot more fun now and we are completely comfortable with each other.

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  • Failedcasanova

    I think either a virgin or someone with experience would be nice. Just depends.

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  • m22

    I guess I'd prefer a virgin but I voted doesn't matter because really it doesn't matter. I just want a girl who loves me.

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  • stamford99

    I would want to be with a virgin so she doesnt expect anything of me. We both dont know whats good or bad

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I doubt I would have cared unless he absolutely had to tell me about his previous sex life with his other girl(s). That has never happened to me. I really have no preference because there isn't much of a way to prove it for men anyway.

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  • milkymum

    im a slut and guys who have fucked me say they prefer to fuck me cos they can do me as hard a sthey want and it wont hurt me!! after all with a virgin you cant do her hard

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    • dirtybirdy

      Uhh...nice advertisement?? The difference between you and a virgin is quite a stretch....

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        It's funny cuz it's true!

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        • dirtybirdy

          You sank my battleship!!....That's what HE said!!! :/

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          • Saycheese

            Haha. I really chuckled at this one. :D

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      • milkymum

        yes im easy to fuck hard!

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        • dirtybirdy

          I'm proud of ya sugartits.

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        • charli.m

          *facepalm*

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    • BLAh81

      Sluts rule!

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