Cant belive the lgbt community is so fuckd up

Not sure if you’ve noticed but the WORLD is fucked up however, if you’re basing your opinion on the people who use hookup apps such as Grindr then your opinion is flawed for starters. Grindr does not equal the lgbt community. Most of the people on those apps have unhealthy attachment styles. The healthy people are in healthy relationships not desperately sniffing around for random anonymous dicks everyday to fill the gaping void they feel internally. Second, generalising an entire section of the community based on some bad experiences you had is a distorted and unhealthy way to view life. The world will always match your beliefs. It’s called confirmation bias - the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms or supports one's prior beliefs or values.
Heterosexuals are just as fucked up if not more so. At least lgbt are honest and open about it. Heterosexuals usually just screw around behind each other’s backs. Then the women screw the men over and take them to the cleaners.
BTW I was in 100% monogamous gay relationship for 17 years so pretty sure there are plenty more like me. My ex is now my best friend.
My advise to you is delete grindr and never look back.

I'm pretty sure that's an issue with humans in general and not just a specific portion of them, like LGBTQ

If that's your experience with them, then you basically just had "bad luck" when it comes to the people you chose to spend time with

Most of the people I know in that community are nothing like what you wrote, so I think it's just a matter of finding the right person

LGBTQ has never been a kind group. They draw more lines and separate people than other groups.

Now practice what you’re preaching.

Just because you’re a queer doesn’t mean you can only have queer friends.

I was gonna say, do people do this? You really shouldn't put up with that...

But then it devolved into angry sister lesbian. You are a puppy killing psychopath who wants to bang her own sister and violently hates every penii in the vacinity. You are too crazy for words, let alone dating, noodle.

One of my closest friends is gay. He's fairly shy - He's actually really cool, and very smart, he's just quiet and takes a while to open up to people, so you don't always see it straight away if you're in a big group. He's very career focused and set himself up well financially.

Anyway, he stays as far away from the LGBTQ scene as possible. He occassionally goes to gay bars in the early evening for a beer, in the hopes he might meet someone, but he doesn't feel he fits in there at all. He dresses like a straight guy, apparently, and he doesn't like the chem sex scene. He just wants a nice guy to settle down with, buy a house and eventually adopt a kid.

I do think it's really sad that someone like him is so frequently rejected by the community. He's as gay as Christmas, he just doesn't dance around in a pink tutu screaming about gay rights and sucking stranger's dicks all the time. He has been let down so many times by guys who he thought he had something with, because they disappear off for a chem sex weekend with their ex boyfriend or some shit, and then think it's still cool to hang out and get dinner like nothing happened on the Monday when they get home. It's a fucking joke.

He's 48, btw. You'd think I was talking about a bunch of 18 year olds, but no. Apparently this crazy orgy scene just goes on for their whole lives.

I'm not saying that gay people are all like this - far from it. But the "lgbt SCENE", as you have referred to, really does seem to be like this.

As someone who is biologically intersex the lgbt community automatically assumed that the genetically intersex people are on their side dispite the fact that we are just random motherfuckers born this way. It's annoying as fuck to he lumped in with mentally ill transgender agenda.

It's like automatically assuming the blacks vote democratic. That's racist to do so. Thus is offensive to assume that intersex people agree with trans people.

We didnt choose to be this way. Yes you can say that trans dont choose either but for intersex people we stay the sex we are for the most part. Born with a dick? Male. Born with a twat? Female. It's rare for someone to be intersex and transgender. More so than the general population of people going from cis Male to trans female or vice versa.

I'm fine if you are gay. But dont add like a 100 other groups of sexual rights advocates too! Some of those groups are pedophiles no bullshit or slander. Gay rights should be exclusively for gay people. Lesbians are their own thing they arent transgender people wanting to be male.

There are loyal committed relationships among the LBGT group. However, those people are not likely to be at "events" and making themselves available to data. Those people are not likely to be on the dating sites.

This is the same as loyal committed hetro's. They tend not to go to some "hetro" meeting (only those looking) and they don't tend to list themselves on most dating sites.

I suggest that you would do better by becoming involved in an activity group (or several) that has many members of both sexes; and that you will likely meet someone there that's a possibility.

I don't believe that there are any loyal, committed relationships that occur any more

Why care what other people do?