Is it normal that i hate sluts with such ferocity?

Wow, you're a disgusting misogynist. Just because something is not to your liking it doesn't mean the rest of humanity has to hear you shame women--ONLY WOMEN--for making choices about their bodies. You say you don't care about men because you're not a homosexual. Then why do you care so much I'd your friend--who I assume you have no interest in dating--is in an open relationship? You're a misogynist plain and simple. You seriously need some therapy.

Humans today? Ha. What a laugh. As if the concept of promiscuity is new. Do they teach history in school where you're from? Being a harlot is about as old as humanity itself. Being loose is as well. Women now just don't feel as ashamed of it as we did centuries ago, but then again, it's now illegal to kill women for having diverse sexual preferences. Back in the day, we were called witches. Now, we're just sluts.

I understand your viewpoint and I respect it, but I don't think that it's fair that people are lesser beings in your eyes for being sexually active in ways that you can't appreciate. While I think cheating is wrong and I'm sorry that you've been tangled up in that mess, I don't feel that it's appropriate that one should be looked down upon for indulging in sexual desires in an honest and responsible manner within their own lives.

The butt-hurt is strong in this one...

You need to make a clear distinction between cheaters and people who are promiscuous outside a relationship or while in an agreed open relationship. "Sluts" are fine, but cheaters you are right to be suspicious of. Having a high sex drive doesn't make people cheat though; having no respect for your partner makes people cheat. Blame the person, not the sex.

I almost have sympathy for you, and I really want to have sympathy for you, but it's difficult when you are so intolerant of people with harmless lifestyles.

When in love, it's disappointing to hear about your lover's past sexually with other guys/girls.

People should take more care of their sex record as the one they will be with in the future will be told truthfully if they're loved and it's not very pleasing. Your future love is more important than your sexual satisfactions from acting like the humans we are.

It's a shame so much dignity is lost so recklessly, this is only one of the reasons obviously why I feel this is wrong.

I completely agree with you and think this is normal.

Slut - one who is unable to have a steady relationship so they go out and fuck people mindlessly.

I don't judge people based on promiscuity. It's their bodies and their lives. I'm indifferent.
I don't like calling women whores either. It's that kind of slut shaming frame of mind that leads to all kinds of violence towards women.
Live and let live.

It is normal and it is frustrating if you are looking for a potential wife. Obviously you don't want to marry a promiscuous woman, so it can be quite a feat to find a woman who does not have a whorish past.

How about turning it around the other way and stating that women can't be sluts if the MEN weren't willing to have sex??

I think your outlook is disgraceful and you talk and act along the lines of someone like Adolf Hitler or Kim Jong Il!!

It sounds like you are angry with being cheated on in the past.
However if someone who is single or in an open relationship, they should be able to do whatever they like. If someone keeps cheating though, then they probablly aren't serious about relationships anyways.
I don't see whats wrong with an open relationship because both partners are doing the same thing and aware of it. Lots of people get bored with having sex with the same person and see nothing wrong with having meaningless sex for pleasure.
You may wonder then why they would want to be in a relationship, personally I am baffled why humans are so obsessed with love and romance to begin with. I just don't comprehend it.

There are certain things you can control and certain things you can't control. It seems that you are at the age where people want to be promiscuous, and thats not limited to women. Ever heard of a 'player'? Thats the male equivalent to 'slut'.

If you really want a genuine, committed relationship then how about YOU be the person who wants to wait on sex? That way she can't just reduce her opinion of you to your sexual performance, you can take a more meaningful role in her life. But of course at some point you'll have to make a move, or she'll think you're gay.

Its all about respect and communication- being on the same page. Best of luck.

I agree with some of your points, and disagree with others. I agree that people who cheat are scum of the earth, and I think some people should be more CAREFUL when having random sexual encounters. But the girl in an open relationship is slightly different, her boyfriend is probably seeing other women too (I hope you find him just as disgusting at least).

Not everyone with a high sex drive is a cheater, and plenty of people who were promiscuous then go into long-term relationships and never cheat. Some people are flirty, but wouldn't actually hook up with anyone. It's hard to guess though. My fiance used to sleep with many random women and cheated on a few of his ex's, but has done a complete turn-around since he met me.

Just so long as your equally as disgusted in male sluts I can't bring myself to judge you too harshly.

You have to realize they're women with their own bodies that belong to them and they can do whatever they want with it no matter how disgusted you are.

This post smacks of mysogny. I'm not surprised your having trouble with relationships if you have so little trust and so much suspicion, see a therapist. Men are known to cheat far more than women, not only cheat but rape and abuse women, slip drugs into there drinks and take advantage of a girl who is asleep/drunk. Yet they are supported and the girl who was most likely drugged vilified. Case in point Stuebunville. Why do you vilify women who are promiscuous but not men? Do men who flirt with loads of girls disgust you? You have issues which you need to deal with!

Christians gonna be Christians lol

Why do men insist on 'innocence' in women? 1. To flatter their vanity. 2. To give themselves the best chance of escaping venereal disease, propagating their noble selves. 3. To maintain power over their slaves by their possession of Knowledge. 4. To keep them docile as long as possible by drawing out the debauching of their innocence. A sexually pleased woman is the best of willing helpers; one who is disappointed or disillusioned a very psychical exzema. 5. In primitive communities, to serve as a guard against surprise and treachery. 6. To cover their secret shame in the matter of sex. Hence the pretence that a woman is 'pure', modest, delicate, aesthetically beautiful and morally exalted, ethereal and unfleshly, though in fact they know her to be lascivious, shameless, coarse, ill-shapen, unscrupulous, nauseatingly bestial both physically and mentally.(Aleister Crowley)

The worst person I've ever known was a huge slut. We slept together for a few months, nothing serious, then she tells me she's married. Later she gets divorced because her husband finds out she was banging some other dude. She calls me up one day and says she wants to hook up. I said "eh, what the hell. She's divorced". Later i found out she was engaged to some dude while we hooked up. Worst... person.... ever. Other than her though i love sluts.

Well how do you define a slut. Do you mean a women who sleeps around then yes I suppose I am a slut, but you need to be more open minded. I am not in a relationship and I have no intentions of ever entering into one (I have my reasons) so just because my prince charming has not come to whisk me away should I deny myself a healthy sex life. No. I will freely admit I have one night/day stands at least once a week. People in relationships can have sex when they want therefore so can I. I suppose you're in a relationship with great sex on tap. very easy for you to be judgemental and if you aren't I apologise for being so presumatious.
I seek the approval of nobody, you included. It's my body. I can have sex when I want, with who I want, as often as I want for as long as I want.
So yes I suppose I am one of those women who you hate, but what gives you the impression I like you. x

U vant fuk big boi? ten dolla i luv u lawng taim!

there is no such thing as sluts...just a word created by judgemental f**ks ,

Whoa man! Sluts LIKE being sluttish, and let's face it many men like them that way. But there are plenty of unpromiscuous women out there - just grab one of them and forget the rest!

I like the way u had my comment deleted. Now I know I was right about you. Coward. Grow up.

I don't know about sluts and playas so much. I think a lot of people can kinda go through stages. However, I definitely have issues with cheaters. I've been cheated on in the past and see it as a very selfish and cowardly behavior. I also have a major problem with people who go after someone in a relationship. If someone has a husband or wife; boyfriend or girlfriend I see them as completely off limits. I hate being hit on my married guys it gives me the creeps! Also, swingers freak me out so bad. I'm polite to their faces when they're hitting on me but as soon as I get the chance I literally RUN! Couples like that make me feel like an object when they hit on me; like I'm prey or something. I hate them; they make me want to vomit!

I kind of hate them too, but I'm trying to fix myself of that. It's just what society has told you, and it's why you used "people today" so much.

Honestly, can you tell me one reason it's not okay? One sound, non-opinionated reason?

I like them, they give good head.

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